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in Chinese history, the birth of numerous distinguished giant, they might make history, or because the left immortal thoughts and articles and go down in history. Inquire about their success footprint, we were surprised to find that their success without exception, standing behind a great woman - the mother.
1. Mengmu
Mengmu Yes Yes, a thoughtful, good at teaching children the virtuous woman. ZTE Confucianism Mencius to become \\to the history of the Chinese people including women and children stories, to become a model for the world to educate their children the mother the story.
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Mencius, was born in Shandong Province, now mallard Zoucheng North Village (now part of Qufu City). \Game, but the child's imitation of nature, because people often see funerals through from nearby, so Mencius and other child \They imitate the funeral crowd, interested in playing a coffin, and buried the dead game. Mengmu that such an environment will affect the kids to school, to prevent children from forming normal thinking, will cause the child to an unhealthy way.
Mengmu decided to move, with Mencius Temple moved to the cemetery away from the village for families. Temple family village for what is now northwest Zoucheng, then, here is a bustling market town. Mencius exposure among these people coming and going downtown, gradually and with the town to do business on the kids playing the game, and his companions shouted learning traders called the buy, bargain, he should also neighbors butcher butcher sheep. Meng Mu think there is still not the ideal place to raise children, this continues, the child is vulnerable to the impact of small traders without serious study.
living in this town just six months on the Meng Mu, resolutely decided to move their home once again. They moved next to school house. This school is located in Temple worship those outside the south gate now Zoucheng Road East, is the grandson of Confucius Temple is located Zisi where lectures, later called it \Later Zisi apprentices in this lecture the students. Meng Mu think kids who lived near the school house, school house will certainly be affected by the atmosphere, grow up reading is also convenient. Mother and son moved here after the Mencius really talented in the insidiously College studying to be attracted by the sound, often to study poetry and literature along with the College in the exercise protocol. Meng Mu'm glad I finally found the ideal place to raise children, from here to settle down. Mencius was sent to school Meng Mu house, with the Zisi disciples learning, so that Mencius was put on academic path.
Mengmu off the same machine to teach the child the story of Meng Mu moved three stories to teach the child as the mother model. Although the nature of Mencius intelligent, but there are usually naughty children. To the Academy to study some time after the start of fresh momentum gone, the fun spots, sometimes absent from school, the mother lied to is to find lost things. Mencius once they went home early, Meng Mu is woven, that he was playing truant. Meng Mu Mencius called to him, and to weave all the cloth cut in half. Mencius asked why it is, Meng Mu replied: \Only perseverance, perseverance, to get profound knowledge, can become useful, not halfway. Truancy like broken machines, line breaks, not woven into the cloth, often cut class, must learn nothing.
Mencius Fanran
Dawu, from Diligent in study, do not live up to the expectations of the mother, and finally became a great thinker and educator. Meng Mu worked hard for the family life, although Mencius has grown up, but the education and supervision of Mencius never relaxed before. In Qi, Mencius repeatedly to explain his own political views King Xuan, Xuan Although the reward of Mencius, Lu million minutes, but would not actively promote his political ideas. He was very willing to accept his political views want to go to the Song, but also worried that the mother too old unattended.
Mengmu know his son's mind, his son said: \almost sub-line justice, I line my almost ritual. \implemented smoothly.
At this time, his life for his son make every effort to Mengmu, watched his son at the moment of success, the success of a mother full of joy, terminal one. In the burial site on the way home, passes through the place, whether public officials, the roadside memorial to all war and expressed the great respect and grief the mother.
20 miles north in Shandong Zoucheng Ma On Shan Lu, Gubosensen the Meng Mu Lin serene solemn, always attracted generations of people who admire the great mother.
2. Xu mother
Ying Xu Shu is a three state
(Henan Xuchang) people, character straight. Early and Zhuge Liang, Pang Tong with the friends, who voted Liu Biao, Liu Bei after the vote of any military advisor. When Xu Shu defect to Liu Bei, Liu Bei comes the occasion of misfortune alone, thousands of soldiers, however, the city only a new field, there will be only Guan Yu, Zhang Fei, Zhao Yun, Guan Ping, Zhou Cang et al. Xu Shu Liu Bei's army, division, made after the exhibition talent and facilities within a few months with good ideas, kill Lu Kuang, chopped Lu Xiang, big break eight golden array, defeat Cao Ren to take Fancheng, Liu lifted the morale of the army, Cao Cao One of the arrogance of the cold. Cheng Yu Cao Cao Cao Cao's advisor, said: Xu Shu Cheng Yu talent than his 10 times higher. But what is regrettable is that, in Xu Shu Yuezhanyueyong, he had becomes highly. Policy makers in the three countries early this aspect intellectual disabilities field to serve the contest whole family to have lost a very important military strategist, lost many future generations can make use of forces to learn and to follow the law. The good news is, in the farewell Xu Shu Liu Bei when Zhuge Liang recommended to him, then passed down through the ages with the \
Xu Shu is the time to display their talent, why should we suddenly left Liu Bei? Cheng Yu Cao Cao's advisers because. Xu Shu is a famous filial son. When Cao Cao heard counselors Cheng Yu said Liu Bei Xu Shu ideas for the time, wanted to incorporate it into their own use. Cheng Yu Cao Cao Xu Shu's mother taught Pianzhi Xuchang, please write to call the mother Xu Xu Shu. Xu did not think the mother is Faithfulness clear, deep Xiaoda Yi of the elderly, Xu see through Cao Cao's treacherous mother, and resolutely refused. Cheng Yu on the further offer advice, Xu mother forged a letter, attract Xu Shu. Xu Shu is a dutiful son, received this ######## letter, had to bid farewell to vote Cao Liu Bei. Xu Shu Liu Bei parting, the two phases do not shed tears, the heart refers to Liu Bei and Xu Shu said: \Since then please do not. \different weeks was Lvwang, Zhang Han was also. \
Xu Shu was a forged letter easily fool the Xuchang, a move that clearly knows the mother of severe pain and committed suicide, resulting in a lifetime of regret Xu Shu, so he hated the devil come to get the job only happy to get A lifetime is not set up an account for the spectators. Old mother swallowed their anger for their own stupidity and the nether world, discouraged Xu Shu, could not help Yangtianchangtan: \
in that era, called the Han Cao phase, is the authentic career, but Xu was able to distinguish the evil pseudo-mother that the son defected to Cao Cao is the Pearl of the vote in the dark, which shows the mother of the monks of high justice.
3. mother
Since the gun
Yue Fei pick a small King of Liang, row after the tourney field, and Niu Gao, Gui, Tang Wai, Zhang Xiandi brother five, went back to his hometown in Henan Tangyin, homebound up.
this time, the North Jin Guoxing, the four soldiers southward invasion led by Prince Wushu gold. Northern Song court corrupt and incompetent, unable to resist, Kaifeng was the capital account Jinbing (now Kaifeng), the Emperor Qin Zong, overlord Huizong also carried to the North. Kinbyo burning and looting in the Central Plains, evil. Coupled with the prevalence of plague in Henan this year, but why had met with a severe drought, crop failure, the people born in fire and water among the miserable. Yue Fei and his mother, his wife at home Kushou poor, is very bleak. Gui, Tang Wai, Niugao a few people's parents have passed away, a few people unable to bear hunger and cold, too dirty to do things. Yue Fei off several times to persuade them to take ill-gotten gains, they are not willing to listen, it was not together to the mountains Luocao the. Yue Fei see such a scene, the hearts of grief.
day, Yue Fei was talking with his mother at home, someone came to knock on the door. Yue Fei, the man received a house, the conversation come to know What is the Dongting Lake Yang Zuo rebels Department would, as long Mu Yuefei Wenwuquancai What Yang, Zuo came to employ special difference to go help. Zuo gave us lots of gold and jewels the moment as the bride price. Yue Fei Stern said: \Zuo do nothing, and finally had to pack up to go from the dowry back to the mountains.
Zuo left, into these thin, said Yue Fei and his mother. Mother-in listening and meditating for a while, let the incense table placed under Yue Fei to the nave, correct incense, and then come together with his wife, incense candles, earth worshiping ancestors. Also known as Yue Fei knees, wife grinding the ink. Mother said: \infidelity matter, would not lose in the event of the Half a Yoshina?, therefore I am today Zhu Gao world our ancestors, to be tattooed on your back 'loyalty to serve the country' four words, you would like to be a loyal, faithful to serve the country, not rich, I'll smile in the nether world a! \Mother to take off the pen, first write back Yue Fei \\Barbed end, the ink will be painted with vinegar, so that never faded. Yue Fei up Kouxie the grace of mother child training.
At this time, the throne in Jinling Kang Song for Gao. Pass down the court decree, appointed by the staff called Yue Fei Beijing, shuaibing Route Expeditionary, figure re-ZTE, revenge. Yue Fei received the imperial edict, instantly ready to pack. Mother warned him babe, do not forget \Yue Fei take leave mother, and asked his wife, this horse to go to Beijing. After that, several times defeated Kinbyo Yue Fei led troops, trying to restore the Central Plains, only to the prime minister a traitor Qin Hui, a group of court, fornication Jin, framed Zhongliang. They lied to Beijing Yue Fei, framed his rebellion, under the prison. Trial, Yue Fei off his shirt, exposing his back \But the evil rampant, Yue Fei was eventually killed in the storm booths. However, the mother-training children to serve the country's national hero Yue Fei's story and reputation has spread through the ages.
4. hole mother
Yen history about the mother of Confucius to teach the child sign in the little story of a lot of people do not understand. In fact, the growth of holes in the mother in the Confucian role is very important.
Confucius family ancestors micro
Chung, is the last king of Shang King Zhou's brother. After the fall of the Shang Dynasty, big brother micro-son was crowned Song Zhou monarch, after the death of micro-son Kai, micro Chung to the throne, to the generation of Confucius, the father is already XV, the parent hole just a warrior in the State of Lu. Mother's family first Zuber Confucius bird, is the ancestor of the State of Lu, Dan's eldest son the Duke of Zhou, Zhou Dynasty kings, the grandson of Emperor Wen.
Confucius said
father had married the mother is already old when the sixties, while the women were satisfied with two-year-old Yan. Because of significant differences between the age at the time not etiquette, it is \Confucius about three years old when he left Zou Yi hole master to the palace in the capital live in Qufu, when his family was very poor.
grandfather of Confucius is the learned men who, at that time, the same knowledge that allows her gift of literacy can be reflected in its open-minded. Grandfather of direct instruction, so that the mother not only accumulated a huge hole in the vision and cultivation, officiating in the education and training is also very high. Her father's house all the books, are moving into their new home, choose one of three houses intercropping study, prepared at least five years old when Confucius taught him to study. She received the first five children, in their own tutor fameng book, each student received school-owned house, five millet and a load of firewood bucket, enough to feed the mother and son.
Mother Education
Kong children calligraphy, arithmetic and singing three lessons, but also teach children etiquette and ceremony. Less than six years old attendant learning of Confucius, and later, sign in and gathered a few students, small Confucius as his mother's little helper to make counseling modest. Mother hole and careful painstaking cultivation of education, less than ten small Confucius, the Department has learned fameng complete homework, because he loved Sato,
chanel sunglasses 2011, willing to use his mind to the problem, memory superior, like to help others, as learning experience the best. This has been a tutor mother hole career, their learning experience to help others, to do private school after Confucius, Hing Education, played a direct impact.
in accordance with the rules at the time, would-year-old boy outside the Fu (with other teachers to the school.) Hole Mother closed her school, the small city of Confucius to the best school, learning poetry, books, history lessons, he incurs later known as the \content. School was called \Yan Jun Lu leads due to a family and clan relationships, Confucius is still the identity of an aristocracy, was aristocratic in the school of education.
affectionate mother has such a dependence, only the \things in illicit ######ual relations, where the tomb had not told the father, where the tomb of Confucius, the father to find out, wanted a funeral home in a five-way thoroughfare Father. By Chang Li, and not sleep when funeral home, funeral home today on the outside of Confucius deliberately intended to attract attention, and asked the strange people, the tomb of Confucius, the father can take the opportunity to find out where the. Later, the father asked the mother of the Tsou people of Man, before we know his father was buried in defense, and then enable parents buried.
5. European Female
Ouyang Xiu is a famous Song Dynasty scholar, a distinguished writer, historian, is one of the Tang and Song. He was born in the feudal official career family, his father was a petty official Ouyang view. In Ouyang Xiu 4 years old, my father passed away, so the burden of family life, the mother of all falls Xiu Zheng body. To make a living, the mother had to take just 4-year-old Ouyang Xiu from Luling to Suizhou to widows and orphans can get in the Suizhou Ouyang Xiu uncle's care.
Zheng Ouyang Xiu's mother was born into a poor family, only to read the book a few days, but it is a persevering, knowledgeable, and hardworking mother. She continued to talk about how the young man's story of Ouyang Xiu, regarded each finished the story to make a summary of the story, so a lot of truth in life Xiu understand. Her life teaching children the most is not simply repeating what others do not follow the crowd. Slightly larger after Ouyang Xiu, Zheng He tried to teach literacy to write, first taught him to read Zhou Pu Tang Dynasty poet, Gu Cheng and the then nine monks poetry. Although these poems Xiu scanty, but increased interest in reading.
seeing Xiu went to school age, and Cheng bent her son read, but the family was poor, can not afford a pen and paper. Once she saw the front side of the pond with silver grass, whim, and with these silver grass stalks wrote on the ground is not too good? She used silver grass stalk when the pen, sanded when the paper began to teach Xiu calligraphy. Ou his mother's teachings, on the ground strokes to practice writing, and repeatedly in practice, was wrong to write, until the date written on the writing neat and meticulous. This is the future generations for the elephants \
Ouyang Xiu
young mother's education, soon fell in love with poetry and literature. Write-read every day, accumulating more and more, it had to Guomuchengsong hours. 10 years old when his mother took him to a nearby library and more often people borrow at school, because he did not, she let him borrow books to copy down.
day, he used paper basket from Lee and found a six volumes of the \Opened it, an eye-opener, they neither eat nor sleep, day and night reading. Song dynasty, the community and more popular gorgeous impetuous, empty the contents of style, and Han Yu's writing style is completely different with it. Han Yu Xiu was impressed by the articles fresh and natural. He was pleased the mother said, as much as such a good article in the world ah.
Although Ouyang Xiu young age the thought of Han Yu literature may not all understand well, but get rid of his flashy style after the foundation. And it is in this ideological inspiration, a study of Han Yu, get rid of bad literary culture was the idea in his mind invariably strikes.
Xiu grow up to Tokyo to attend jinshi test, and even test three games, have been the first. When Ou 20 years old, already was famous literary figure. Ouyang Xiu's mother is pleased with superior intellect, but she want her son to not only outstanding literary achievements, and his work should be worthy of their own conscience. After growing up a government official Ouyang Xiu, the mother will often keep things official performance of his father tell him. She said to him: When your father do judges, often at night dealing with cases involving the civilian population for the case file, he very carefully, over and over again to see. Who can be given a lighter,
dior sunglasses 2011, are a lighter sentence; and for those who can not be given a lighter, often sympathetic, more than sigh. She said: Your father, government officials, integrity, unselfish, and often money or property to aid to others, like a knot guests. His official salary while small, but often not to have left. He often said no put money into a liability. So he died, did not leave a room, without leaving a ridge land.
son told her, taking care not for the parents to be very rich, it is important to have a filial piety. Although it can not donate their property to the poor people, but must be feel benevolent. I can not afford to teach you, as long as you can remember your father's teachings, I can rest assured.
mother's teachings of these earnest, deeply imprinted on Ouyang Xiu mind. Ouyang Xiu official just to, but not forgotten honor mothers for their blazing hard. Huang Hu five years, Ouyang Xiu's mother died at the age of 73 in Nanjing, Ouyang Xiu home delivery of the mother buried the body. Mother kindly face, a rat race of the figure, and always appeared in front of his mother's earnest teachings inspired a lifetime achievement winner.
6. Tao master
Tao Kan is famous Eastern Jin Dynasty, a former military governor eight states, Zheng Xi major general, letters Changsha owned High. He has a very virtuous and clearly knows the mother. Tao Kan's ancestors, historical records are not available. His father, Dan Tao is Wu's side will be, the official Yang Wu generals. Yang Wu, Department of miscellaneous number, status is not high. Ancestors Tao Kan no prominent official career record can be traced back a young man and when one had to find Yang's \Conquest of Wu Jin, the South Central Plains called man-made \Tao Kan such as \
Tao Kan teenager his father died, his family was poor, with the mother Cham's had each other. Cham's was a very strong woman. Determined to make her son succeed. In this environment, very strict discipline on the Tao Kan and funded through their own son to make friends textiles. Later, Tao Kan Gongcao week visit in the county under the guidelines recommended to the county when the main book, started out as cheap labor status.
time, via the Poyang County Xiaolian Fan Kui Tao Kan family. Coincided with heavy snow. Tao Kan due to a poor family, but neglect the fear of not entertain friends, hearts very anxious. Look in the eyes of the mother, to comfort him, you just ask a guest to stay, and I will try to serve good. So she took the head, hair cut,
dior sunglasses, into food and wine, but also roll up bed of chopped hay, Tao Kan \Fan Kui after that, said with emotion: \Fan Kui even followed the servant from the expectations are greater than that.
such as Fan Kui leave, Tao Kan and sent over a hundred years to recover. Fan Kui was moved and asked Tao Kan parting: \Fan Zhang Kui Kui was made to Lujiang prefect, \At this time coincides with the State Department in the county came to, he would like to take inspection of the Ming Lesuo bribe bribery, Tao Kan of Officials will be relieved of office to his men that he engaged in a face, said: \rope, not onslaught. if not with propriety, I can Royal to. \Also Wei Wang Kui Zhang Tao Kan return for helping his career. \CD Tao Kan said: \So to the line, all the salty serving its meaning. Si after the passing of Changsha Prefecture million Lujiang, see Tao Kan, Tao Kan special open-minded to his humility, makes prefect surprised, when parting he said, \Ordered his son to make friends, and after the leave.
With this relationship, Tao Kan Ji Bei Zhang Kui cited as Xiaolian. Rely on this identity, Tao Kan Luoyang and the upper celebrities can enter to get to know, to realize his ambition.
Soon, Tao Kan Yu Liang officials do, food official of the fish (pickled fish). He spoke the poor mother in to a little fish with pots, and got sent to his mother. Unexpectedly, not only from the mother, will return the sealed jar, with letters to blame, said: \with great education, and integrity for the Tao Kan was an official of the foundation.
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about six years (296 years), Tao Kan to Luoyang. Luoyang at the time, after decades of restoration, reconstruction, and become very busy, noisy. However, the bustling capital of what Tao Kan was not a bright future. For many years, grade System, has led to the election official on the Western Jin Dynasty, \Children with their parent clans, to reside in Yao Jin Yu Yin ancestors did not bother climbing the corporate ladder for the future.
Tao Kan also know the identity of people like him, have no right to the door when the backing is simply impossible in Luoyang foothold in officialdom. Therefore, he went to ask to see \But Zhang was \Contempt for Zhang Tao Kan was not discouraged. Repeatedly asked to see, \Zhang and Tao Kan in the conversation, surprise, that he different from ordinary people, Tao Kan Zhang soon the recommendation made in the doctor. Selected types of qualified official doctor, but a poor base such as Tao Kan scholar is simply squeeze into those prominent official position.
Tao Kan stayed in Luoyang five to six years, but the future remains very uncertain. During this period, intensified civil strife in the Western Jin Dynasty. Yongkang first year (300 years), after Jia Zhao Wanglun waste. Emperor Hui years and spent the second emperor himself. Unrest within the development to the court by the court outside. Luoyang has become the kings of the armed forces both inside and outside the conflict, competing land. In this case, the resident Luoyang Jiang Dongshi family returns home seeking shelter. Tao Kan has been recognized at this time, this powerful family in Luoyang politics, he is unlikely to come out on top. Because of family have returned home by Jiangdong Shi affected by the atmosphere, he was prepared to the south.
Huang has been made when the Board of Civil
Ling Li, recommend any supplement Tao Kan Wugang magistrate. Wugang is a county in southern Jingzhou. This time, Tao Kan was forty years old. Tao Kan After the arrival of the relationship with the prefect Lvyue very nervous. He then official position to go home. County and later worked as a small CKS. If not, the turmoil south of Shanxi at the end to his trip to the opportunity to peer Rong body, I am afraid that his life can only be a magistrate of the class petty officer. Eight Princes southern unrest caused, provided opportunities for the Tao Kan Shizhancaigan. At this time, a tremendous impact on the life of Tao Kan's mother died, and year-round 75. Tao Kan decades of official career, always keeping in mind the teachings of his mother, a hundred bricks every morning to go outside to move the house at night and if the number of moving back. Q. Why do men do this, he replied: My ambition is to lead the troops swept through strong Krupp, restore the Central Plains, if not how can exercise a good body too!
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7. She Taijun
She Taijun, name match flowers, Xijing Datong, is the town on Thursday after the military commissioners off the Sun from Ruan, Wing Tak Jiedushi off the town of the state government (household clothing) of the women. She Taijun off German father since childhood, (household clothing) guarding the state government, good at riding and shooting, with industry and the North Han Yang famous wife. Discount Taijun nature showed an instinctive rapport, bow Fan martial arts mature horses, know tactics, his assistant, Li Yang, industry repeatedly exploits, Guanju cloud observations to the state, known as Yang invincible. Later, when the levy Liao, Pamela command, Yang industry as a pioneer of the post to the pregnant unexpectedly Pan Renmei Siyuan, grudge against her, forcing the temporary absolutely alone insurance, Chen Jiayu vector do poor, Fan Jiang Wu Tun is gathered, Suizhi army were trapped, Yang industry captured third is do not eat and died.
Yang industry die for his country after the break and help the eldest son of Yang Yanzhao Taijun meritorious anti Liao, Chung-Yi Fu Shi Ren tired, JAC patrol to the south are,
sunglasses hut, know that the military will be far, state security patrol rim are so, so that the state defense, Gao Yang, vice are deployed off the Department, such as Beijing to increase. Yang Yanzhao frontiers more than twenty years, also praised the Song Emperor Zhen Zong said: \Yang Yanzhao military died, aged 57 years, He Shuo Wang Yan Zhao Lingshu of many people burst into tears, sadness of straight Miracle. Yang Yanzhao from Diqing Nan Zheng, son of Yang Wenguang active, defense officials state grant Xing, Jing known state, for the vice are Dingzhou Road Explorer, move further military Yu Hou, died after the State presented the same observation to make.
Yang Yang family business from father to Sun Yang Xin Yang Wenguang, riding four generations of grandparents and grandchildren fought heroically fighting the enemy die for his country called, \Though there is a history of folding Taijun not made more records, but She Taijun deep pass that book on military strategy, Jiuzhan battle, loyal patriotism, the overall situation, clearly knows the heroine image is engraved in the minds of the people. Her command of the Yang family's fighting epic of heroic deeds, has reached the household, young and old well-known depth. Later,
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sunglasses 2011, hope she eternity, immortality, but also played a storytelling series, novels and opera repertoire, in which widespread opera repertoire.