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Reprinted from 14127922 at 17:13 on July 27 2009 read (loading. ..) Comments (2) Classification: Emotional World 80 of us, presumably now Laotaibuxiao, and put children at this age in the liberation of Montreal run. Look around there are many peers marry and have children, you can also have held back most, um, a mention of marriage to twitch!
Why are we Sipilailian of pulling the tail of youth do not get married? Let me think about it.
I think, first of all, attitude problems.
in the past, marriage is simply not a thing, one to find a similar age to do, then everyone was poor, simply agile, and no one cares about love and more love less. But now that human evolution was more seriously their own children, and what character, family background, appearance, work,
nike air force one, education, future, or even as a hobby is not without pondering, repeated studies, in-depth study, careful comparison, toss and turn ... ... seeing the complexity of the problem put simply, they magnify the problem! More confused the more refined results, it can not be a marriage to end!
married Well, the two join as a partner to live, had more than a simple matter, hard to create the space shuttle than we confused yet wordy. The recovery of their reasons, I think the purpose of marriage is not simply, and always wanted to get some through marriage, the other added value. Such as houses, cars, but also the future of the good old days. When you want a piece of paper to get a lifetime thing, is quite a bit.
mentality there is a problem, that is, the fear of marriage.
our generation can be regarded as trophy to grow up, I did not experience the war did not survive the hungry, their parents tend to baby, the old feeling is still small, how to get married then? Marriage means children, she was still a child, how he came out the next generation? Now young women are narcissistic enough, to take over the mundane is really so reluctant to let go of youth, boys the same age is less mature, when used to let him Dangdie son suddenly, all of a sudden really adapt.
well-meaning parents, for our lifetime of happiness that can be heard If this marriage is really the
Also, modern apathy and decay of love let us hesitate to panic. The most immediate consequence is that many people no longer believe in love, do not believe in commitment, do not even believe in themselves. I could not change even their own future security are not allowed, how to ask others? Illegitimate child of divorce around the affair full of betrayal and betrayal of the eye, my marriage can be spared? Besieged there in the end this is good? May enter into a second-hand one, is too cautious.
Second, is a human problem, which is the key.
want to marry the people do not want to marry, we do not want to marry want to marry. Fanjian people are animals, though not necessarily get something good, but is always kept in mind, please the people subservient to the supremacy of the mind into the not necessarily grateful. Be silent about their devotees around is turning a blind eye, holding you, loving you, to really put myself as the emperor, and other conditions, no matter how well felt wronged their own, not always so willing to She got in trouble look on you.
there are some people who neither want to marry people who do not want to marry,
nike air force 1, the entire service area is not a love, be love, forgotten corner, hey ... ... if you Kangde Zhu single pressure, then or Ningquewulan it, abuse it if such a person to Shoubu Zhu also received a.
marriage no matter how simple, is also a matter of two people, I looked around a person, whom Results ah? Intimate that the white prick, with tinted glasses to buy cabbage,
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Finally, a question of money. The problem, said China also big, small is also small.
poor couple misery, these words must be justified. Money is certainly a lot of young lovers and rank the biggest obstacle. Lang affectionate concubine interested, staff in place, like the Young Pioneers mentality ready, and they love devotion, and anxious to build a nest having children immediately, and can nest where to find this it? That the white house, say that white is the money. No money no room, even if the rents have to ask for money,
air force one shoes, right? Say that marriage is the tomb of love, no house you have no access to even the grave! Victors of it! The so-called sense of belonging to a woman's sense of security, when in love is a reliable shoulder warm embrace, can a married woman to change the flag flew from the more Zhang romantic realism, how was how warm and generous embrace of the now not as good as steel fraction of cement to reality.
ago in rural areas, there can be a happy occasion the inter-tile-roofed house; later generation that we parents, married as long as there is benefit housing; Now, University of universal prosperity of the people, and we hand, even the can not wait. 20 several of the college, there is a fixed unit quite good steady income, no matter how good the unit can not get a free house ah. How the house did not get married? If the parents a little family property, the house you are buying a car, and that good fortune, how many students go to school all the money borrowed from the East to fight the West, graduation would like to buy a house? The first 5 years 6 years is also a debt then. Of course, certainly has started from scratch and struggle taught, but when he scratch, you will not be taught how to determine what he will? If you have the eyes that you wait, the way men Dezhi see more novels after his wife abandoned finds no dramas.
addition to the house, the place of marriage for money and more to go, what deposit,
air force 1 high, bride price, rings, wedding ... everything ... a lot. Said ring it, do not know who invented, anyway, have a wedding! From courtship, engagement, marriage, which had a step missing ring? Can not be a general ring, was a symbol of love is forever the
offer, when you iron the copper even with a plastic straw, a small romantic feelings for a woman that came up also do not care, the total can not be married to such a fool when someone, right? You have the heart to let the bride walked with aluminum ring with you in a rental house? This point can be a large stone fart I do not know why so valuable to the absolute self-reliance and make a small youth, So, ah, a great longing for marriage of cement and stone, let a few ruin the future.
course, there are opened to see this set of primary care, four years married to mouth is not to mention buy a diamond ring, not wedding photographs, no feast, the children of a new You save trouble, and may have a few women also want to save trouble ah? Anyway, most women are not enough, be sure to shoot wedding photos, but also good film,
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Every family has its cupboard, get married have to vary this. After all, life event, although after 80 experience is still shallow, but we also know how to write Liangzi responsibility. Wish we Duo Zhenzhong, cherish life together in the future do not regret it!
80 after the mainstream of today's society people or people about to become the mainstream of society, the intention of writing this article is to arouse public concern, and 80 times after going to the outside world to our thoughts and ideas are constantly change. Too many things we face, who is also the increasingly heavy burden, if this generation disharmony, society can harmony?
world is ours, and also his sons, but ultimately that bunch of grandchildren.
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