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Family education for children is the most essential, the child's future life and death. A bad habit of children, he grew up a cloud of evil in society, perish the abyss of human evil; if held amenable, then parents have to bear considerable fault. In fact, parents who want their own children grow up? But not something for nought. You want your child can become a respectable person,Men's North Face Down Jackets, then in the early years of education can not be ignored. The environment caused by things the child is not born with good or bad, respectively. So some children their very noble character, behavior is correct, but some children have some rowdy things get, even guilty, it is in the deficiency of well-educated reason.

personality formation of children play an important role in the incipient family. Family economic element of society, but also the moral amounts ​​of society in the focus point.

recent years, education, science and At this period children live in families and the surrounding context, external stimuli will leave marks in their head. Repeated incentive presentation, will be transformed into the interior information, and promote the latent of children's head development, promotion of children emotion, perception, memories, calculating, imagination and additional mental processes and feelings, will the development process. At the moment the potential of children's brain development and hereafter learned and career of far-reaching impact, the formation of his persona have a mysterious impact. Thus, in this period, family education for definite children develop role is quite pertinent. Family over-indulgent, wayward children, applause and pride is constantly a source of symbol formation. The kind of arrogant, selfish, headstrong temper, lack of neutral spirit, is chiefly occasioned along unsuitable family upbringing.

German psychologist analysis: only the family is not complete, or forced in the case of the social status of poor children, will generate the membrane reflects the aggressiveness. Because experienced educators that: the content of necrosis, murder and arson in films and TV films, may be noxious to children's growth; cruelty on television, but really do make children aggressive? Germany agreed that a team of psychologists is not the case.

this theory is Dr. Tao Qu from the University of Hamburg led by a group of campus students and spokesmen who made a catena of scientific test results. They four hundred thirty nine and a test-year-old children in Hamburg, showing a typical western movie to show them. After the film clips for these four: 1st the bad guys get an equitable judge; second bandits impunity; third made good and the bad guys and good return; fourth actions fewer. Psychologists Conclusion: unpunished raid, mushroom children's aggressive. However, the position of poor children in the family, when the pickpocket punished for the crime of aggressive rejoinder; and well-being of children, family life, the fewer aggressive behavior.

Thus, social impact on children is the first family to play a role. This role is mainly via family relationships between people and children in the family of their status, and family members (first parent) of action on children to effect.

If the child is too harsh, often scolding, beatings, the children did not always feel the family heartiness, make him from childhood loneliness, depression and stubborn character, their actions are often impulsive and triggered , and even become chilly, marble, experienced dog will go to damage it, to vent their internal pain and disgust.

lost their parents to be bullied alternatively alive in their parents' divorce in families of children, often very unhappy,North Face Jacket, feeling lonesome, when confronted with someone goes bad, thought effortless to drill, side.

parents disagreement, each doing its own thing, make the children confused and disoriented, but also make it easy to get offended children, vigilance is high, and even the use of parents to safeguard and cover up their failings, mistake; or develop on both sides amuse, opportunistic, lying a good neatness.

Generally speaking, children tend to noiselessly study the demeanor of the parents: his mother loves to clothe up, primp her love; mother talkative, her daughter is no exception. In the eyes of children, their parents' behavior is the ideal model, the parents of all words, movements, habits, attitudes, and work life, whichever and all minor things, all children follow the objectives. If parents do not lead by instance, words and deeds can not be persistent, then the children lose not only concrete and effective prototype, and the center lost faith. After their parents, although great pains, but it is tough to teach their children. For example: do not want kids using foul language, the first parents that they are not using foul language; to the children of the accustomed of courtesy, of parents who have their own civilized; hope children do not gamble, do not cloud, do parents have no this hobby we go! Otherwise, all talk, all in vain.

we know: children are born pure. The mentioning goes If only the children a good education by the ideal, they naturally will be competent to morality nurtured. Example is better than precept, the fact is more important than theory, take convenience of opportunities is stronger than the strict teaching, which is the conviction of general education, and family education must be fully complied. Brother, his lack of filial piety such as parents pro elders, and elders to the children of filial piety, it is self-deception of education, the result must be invalid. If not the sake of discussion, however the day to teach a thousand words, it would be nothing, at any time use the chance of education, is the ideal tutor time. In short, the tutor of objects, not just restricted to children, who received the education and adults, parents brother, or to take responsibility for education.

common children's educate and household exercise methods are accustom intimidation teaching, which namely most unwise and unreasonable course. As the menace of children's education, no merely hinder their mastermind evolution, but too because mental health, and more magnificent injury. In fact, children ordinarily have two fears: First, the natural alarm, is fear of many hazardous happen. For example: fear lofty fear of water ... and so ashore. Another fret is no the customary nerve, namely is no cause apt fear. For example: fear of the tiger, the night afraid apt go out and so on.

Why do so many children will have a fear it? All parents own production, are often parents' words and actions Some people have thousand children are in kindergarten to do a survey and found that personality shy, timid really accounted for 55%. There is a little boy, my mother not allowed him solo to school or family, each time the road, have to re-educate his mother was kick by a automobile how dangerous. One day, the child their own family, and her mother had wanted to allow ourselves to across the road! Mom was buffet by a car. Between this mother and the psychological fear of each other in a vicious circle.

many parents use anti-education methods, manufacturing preposterous object, to menace kid, this is a great error.

these things every parents may have used. For example: you are almost to go to mattress at night, crying children, has worked hard, both you how to coax, coax is also kept. Then you would say: and devils, etc., to intimidate the children; and promote children's generation too perceptive in this regard,Men's North Face Windstopper-TNF, the caustic manner of schizophrenia on it?

we always know: children simply will have been most afraid of the ache of medical injections. Remember that an night my adjoin children crying, how to persuade the child to his mommy, but he always kept crying. Then he intimidated the mama with a trick. She said: After the sick, his mother hold him to watch a medic, entered the hospital, the child crying loudly, and how not to look a doctor. But the mother who, in order to the child's cancer, only to force him. Seeing a doctor holding a child a long pin, even fainted when remedy his cancer, but he became one moron.

by this true article, so we know: there is harm and intimidate the children, but no benefits. But the general stupidity (ignorance) of parents think children ought have the fear, the fear was more the better, so that children can reside at home quietly. Therefore, the common fear of parents of children transform sorcery.

fear of children received the results, encounter many things, are afraid to do our best, often hang back, to prevail all lost, can not activity to his true aptitude. So I deeply consciousness: To bring up children to become profitable people, do not use intimidation to discipline children with love and instructions must be more advisable, so that they know that in order to maintain their confidence to help them solve the practical problems of life . Goethe once wrote a poem:

if you lose the property - you only lose a mini,

if you lose the medal - you lose a lot,

heroic if you lose - you put anything lost.

This poem points out the daring character of this precious quality of life for people of great significance.

emulating is to aid parents teach children between the problem tin not be ignored:

① your wife has noticed that the child's habits and liking it? ② you ascertain the child's identity shortcomings, whether you learn efficient ways to correct it? ③ Do you give up rap and maltreatment of corporal discipline,Women's North Face Vest, and take advice of a temperate kind opinion? ④ when there are many children, you will methodical discipline it? ⑤ prejudiced the children you do? ⑥ When your child's poor extravaganza when you will think the biggest reason is that the child physically and mentally morbid? ⑦ child's assignment is to make his own train, when required, to lead his side, not for him to write it? ⑧ your child's timetable, often thoughtful care of you? ⑨ In adding to the child's homework, but his minds, hobbies,Kids North Face Jackets, and psychological appearances, you are often hard to study, and guidance to do? ⑩ your school the child is close attention,Men's North Face Denali Jacket, and to study the reasons to be amended?

on these issues: too many if you response If the bulk answer