In recent days I was a grievance, injustice, despair, resentment haunted, depressed. I know this is not good to myself. My bad liver, liver disease are most afraid of sulking.
cause of the little things from her and her husband in a bad communication caused. He thinks that I am many things, I blame him stubborn.
afterwards I feel very worth, there have been several initiatives to give him a chance, to reconciliation with him, but his reaction is more to add to my resentment. I would like to ask for help, but I know that middle-aged people to not wash your dirty linen in public, clean government the truth become a dead letter. Also know that, even if he wanted to help others and help you, the role is very limited, can not completely solve your problem. It's like itching, how the show's not as exciting solution to start their own itch. So much deliberation that the ultimate solution to their problems, it is best to rely on their own.
It's like the sick doctor. Where does it hurt, where the itch, why the cause, he is most clear. But according to your symptoms doctors prescription only. But even the good doctor, and for your illness has made a science of diagnosis and a prescription issued to you, but if patients do not take prescribed medicine is not enough.
stubborn, patients sometimes do not believe the doctors, just believe in yourself, to prescribe for ourselves. This is sometimes regarded as a treatment method, because it is more quick and easy on the one hand, and secondly, to accept their own initiative, the medication will be more conscious, the effect may be better.
a bad mood, depression is actually a disease, known as heart disease. To treat heart disease, to find a psychiatrist. In my opinion, the best psychologist their own, anytime, anywhere to turn to, and do not spend money.
my husband and I married fifteen years,
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In fact, I used to be a very simple, where a person where that will not hold a grudge, and most are not used to the cold war with others. But her husband paranoid cold stubborn, irrational sophistry third approach also makes me look angry. Gradually, the air grew larger, under the control of the self-esteem do not want to take the initiative to ease him easily, though I know that in this process is the biggest hurt myself. His temper cool, cold for longer does not matter, according to according to eat drink, according to play according to sleep. And for I can not.
often conflict with the marriage, so I am unfair because I think they, I told him to pay more than he paid me more, he should be good to me, not bad for me, for I'm not good is that he has no conscience, that is, he does not know how to cherish the feelings and happiness.
now want to come I was wrong. I forgot I treat him in the days he gave me a lot of love and happiness. He treated me in the days of evil I have given him a lot of evil to be.
I scolded him and called him, and said hard words, and even curse words hurt him. In the event of a dispute when I lost the compassion, tolerance, forget the happy marriage and lasting love by patience to run; do not know, as a people, as a wife, as their loved ones, treat the same kind,
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saying what goes around,
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and I know that evil will be similar and face evil for the family. I should remember it.
Now, some soul, I know that I unknowingly married life into a misunderstanding, loving husband and wife before I got used to loving and harmonious family life, to think that couples should not quarrel, and so U.S. U.S. life should last forever.
fact, this is an extremely unrealistic. The universe and nature is a human teacher. There rose a day off, on a lack of a round, sunny days are overcast, flowers have opened a welcome,
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fear most is that every person alive should always striving for perfection, which will own and other people feel bitter and tired. Six Primary Afflictions Buddhism has been emphasizing the dangers slow, careful in life that I wanted to commit this wrong. Too true in marriage soul to cut too deep too, strive for perfection. But a little less prone to unhappy, others arrogant, respectful submissive to her husband, the lack of heart. On the forest for the trees in the pursuit of life,
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the pain out of trouble to the quagmire, I have to learn to put aside, put aside all the wishful thinking and dedication. Buddhist teachings in the future I want to revisions in the meditation, learn to comprehend the flat light into the true meaning of life, enjoy life's pleasures.
Buddhist precepts can students be said, will be able of wisdom. With the wisdom of life, will be able to calmly deal with the annoyance of all life, to find longevity of the party. Distress Zen can not be shaken by external events; set, can not interfere with the inner emotions generated. I know that is difficult to reach such a state, but to really get music from suffering, I must strive to be, to remember: br> always wipe ground,
this thought, the more my heart feel better, too slowly for all relieved. Bamboo stud looked up and saw out the window and straight, but a closer look at each on both bamboo. That is probably the bamboo bamboo self-healing, self-growth results, right?
life, do your own psychiatrist, how good!