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22128758 2010 年 09 月 07 日 17:13 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
6 years ago, the unconditional love of children
modern parents with a child can say after 85, there is no similarities. Now parents have never experienced life experienced by children and social change. For parents, the children of the world is an unknown world.
Many parents hope their children with education in their own way,
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claims based on psychological assumptions
a person's mood after 3 years of age, related to a relationship before the age of 3. A great mother, true to accompany children grow up, for the child's growth is very necessary. 0-3 years old, mother of the children, the Almighty, she resolved to a child, for love, hunger and other needs. However, the 3 will be completed before the age of 90% of their psychological development. 3-5 years old, his father's presence is particularly important, their children and 10% towards the development of society, the need to complete the exchange with his father.
natural growth of children
beginning of pregnancy, let your child grow in nature. When not in the prenatal and listening to too much music. Because even the best music and not playing sounds of nature.
early development of the child's reason is not good,
timberland boots sale, especially before the age of 6, must be more to the development of the child's emotional, the feeling of the outside world, including auditory, visual, touch, taste, etc., and this intuition is perception of nature for the future development of the child and lay a solid foundation.
so fast Do not let children to read, otherwise it will consume too much children's intelligence, In the West, seven children, began to learn letters. In general, the 7-year-old left brain just began to develop, to 14 years to mature. In many cases, non-verbal communication, can stimulate a child more talent. Because a child is 3 years old before the cultivation of talent; 3-6 years of age is accomplishment of the training period; 5-10 year-olds, is based on the life of the game as the center.
knot around people say I'm a spoiled child
Answer: You should choose their children's education approach, rather than let him get used to the teacher
Parent A: My son is now 17 months. I take my son to go to early education classes, but he was not the same as with the other kids, he would crawl around with, buckle the floor, and now he will open the door, open cabinets, grab things with the teacher. I will try with the children, but the people around will say that I should not spoil the child, how can I do?
Li Zixun: First to say, brought by the mother of the children, the elderly than children brought up more energy. Many children, from small power systems to be exploited. More energy for your child, he would hate to solidify the information, we should choose for their children's education approach, rather than let him get used to the teacher. This time, you can go out and play with children, rather than listening to his teacher's arrangements for teachers.
5 years ago, not too much frustration for children, let them be confident. According to the Western self psychology, the future children will be very self, just like the Today's children is the development of narcissism as the center, the early years of self-confidence, make them in the future life is full of happiness. Here is not the modest progress, but proud to make progress, so that the children will in future be responsible for their own happiness.
knot 2 to send their children to kindergarten after
he no sense of security
answer: not establish a new security relationship,
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Parent B: My son is 1 year old and 10 months, we had it in his 1 year old and 4 months,
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Li Zixun: This is an accident. Your child's problems, with the experience of that day kindergarten will not matter. Sometimes a child is very smart, if you have him guilty, he will have depend on you,
timberland uk, take the opportunity to you like a baby. You now need to do is to hone his, trying to leave him 10 minutes a day, then slowly time longer.
go to kindergarten, in fact, the last child will be very happy. We have encountered a case, a father sent his daughter to kindergarten, my daughter, her Daddy's lap crying, and my father have no alternative but to bring her back. The next day, we recommend that the father left and his daughter with a video camera captured the situation in kindergarten. In fact, about 15 minutes after my father left, her daughter just like the kids had fun. On the third day the father can send their daughters to go to kindergarten, the child holding the leg still crying. Dad severely heart, a week later, her daughter to kindergarten no longer escape. In fact, because the children did not create a new security relationship, it will depend on you.
3 sons
knot suddenly went bad
how can I do?
Answer: to help him find his own place
Parent C: I am a mother of a 14-year-old boy, my son did quite well, but now he suddenly turned bad, no homework, smoking, drinking, in the year when the girlfriend. My child and father are university teachers can be for the education of his son, going to his transfer, it useful to you?
Lizi Xun: I would like to ask your own teaching, is not an authority? If so, then obviously, your son is, he wants to areas where he can become the But at the moment, he did not find their own place. If you have any interest in his hobby, you can complete with him. As for the transfer of the problem, you can ask the child, he want? In fact, the teacher's questions, often from parents, teachers need a good reason, to accommodate your child.
knot 4 son dropped out at home doing nothing
Answer: bad mood, not suitable for teaching children
Parent D: My son is 19 years old, high school drop out at home. Primary, secondary and he is class president, but later fell in love with the game as the squad leader removed by the teacher, the son of fits and starts on the network, not class. Now, drop out at home, in addition to facing the computer, he does not do anything.
Lizi Xun: I would like to ask you and your husband's family, the boy is relatively smooth reading experience? If not, then your son is only through repetition of the boys family. I have said before, a child's growth is closely related to their family. You now need to do is to re-understand the relationship between you and your child: if the mother is not usually her son, or mother, son as a little Baby often look abnormal you will most certainly affect their children. Currently, education is not suitable for your son, your mood is not good,
mens timberland boots, you could get a female psychiatrist, you can calm down again and resolved his problems with his son.
knot after 5 I am worried that his son's ######ual orientation
Answer: the father of men to maintain the family level
Parents E: I was a young mother after 80, gave birth to a boy. I was studying ballet, and do not know why, I am particularly worried about his son's ######ual orientation later, want to make clear some of his gender?
Lizi Xun: the problem is your problem, your heart to have that idea, so the only worry. Homo######uality, often have an overly powerful over weak mother and a father. As long as your family, the father of men to maintain the degree, and you tender enough, then the child should not be a problem. Hoping that you'll forget about this concern today, because children are often very sensitive, he will feel your worries, but will bring him as a bad influence.
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