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guarantee you success before the age of 35 classic Cheats
the force of habit is staggering. Used to carrying your success, you can also laden with slide failure. How to choose depends entirely on your own.
1, the force of habit: 35 years ago to form good habits
you want to succeed? That early training is conducive to the success of good habits.
is amazing the force of habit, habit before the age of 35, determines whether you succeed.
such a fable:
visible, used to have a great impact on us, because it is consistent, and often, long years to influence our behavior, influence our efficiency, so our success or failure.
the behavior of one day, only about 5% were non-habitual, while the remaining 95% of the behavior is habitual. Even if the innovation is to break the routine, eventually evolved into the habit of innovation.
According to the findings of behavioral psychology: repeat more than 3 weeks to form habits; more than 3 months to form a stable habit of repeating, that the same action, repeated 3 weeks it will become habitual action, the formation of stable habits.
Aristotle said:
confidence, enthusiasm, determination, perseverance, etc., but also that success should be used to catch the express train to achieve their goals.
zoologists have to do an experiment: he would experiment with a group of a large number of fleas into the cup and cover with a piece of transparent glass. Love jumping flea habits, so many fleas have hit the cover glass, keep hair tingle Hasty's voice. After a while, zoologists will be glass away, had discovered that all the fleas are still jumping,
cheap timberland boots, but have been maintained at the height of the jump near the glass basis, in order to avoid hitting head. Result there is not even a flea can jump out - not by their ability to jump out, but they have to adapt to the environment.
later, zoologist who decentralization in the measuring cup and a kerosene lamp lit the fire. Less than five minutes, measuring cup hot, and all the fleas the natural survival instinct to play, each flea can no longer hit regardless of whether head pain (because they think there is glass), all out of cup away. This experiment proved that fleas will be adapting to the environment, unwilling to change habits, preferring to reduce the talent, the potential to adapt to the closure.
I think the human in the environment as well. Humans adapt to the environment of, for creating their own little environment, and then used to create their own trapped in his own environment. Therefore, the activities you used to determine the size of the space, but also determines your success or failure. To form good habits is very important for your success.
master of psychology William James said: destiny.
2,35 success before the age of 9 essential habits
good habit to make the unexpected success.
good habit to make the unexpected success. I think the good habit of following a successful nine essential:
(1) the good habit of positive thinking
One scholar
Beijing exam the third time, living in a regular live store. Two days before the exam he has done three dreams: The first dream is the dream of their own kinds of cabbage in the wall, the second dream is a rainy day, he wore hats also an umbrella, and the third dream is the dream with love cousin lying ########## together, but Beikaozhebei. Linkao the occasion to do this dream, it seems that some meaning, and the scholar's dream and the next day to find fortune. Fortune-telling one, shooting the thigh, said: but back to back, not the game is it? Shop owner is very odd, and asked: , you're going to the comprehensive examinations. you think the wall is not high vegetable species? wearing umbrella hats not double insurance? with your cousin back to back in bed ##########, not saying you should stand up when to it?
can see the thing itself does not affect people, people only by their own views on the impact of things, people must change the passive habits of thinking, to develop positive thinking habits.
How should develop a positive thinking habit? When you are in the process of achieving goals in the face of specific work and tasks, your brain removed the positive thinking habits.
(2) a good and efficient work habits
a person and then a strong desire to succeed, will also be detrimental to the success of the pieces used, and integration into the mediocrity of daily life. So, of decision behavior,
timberland kids, behavior form habits, habits decide character, character determines destiny. You want to succeed, we must develop efficient work habits.
used to determine whether your work is efficient, if conducive to the successful, I think this standard can be used to test: that the prosecution province of their own work, whether you are worried about unfinished work , that is, anxious feeling. If you should do and not do, or do not yet finished, and often feel anxious for this, it proves that you need to change work habits, to find and develop an efficient work habits.
start from the office to work efficiently:
1) Know your energetic day period. People usually around 9 o'clock in the morning works best, you can put the most difficult time to complete the work.
2) a day focused on one or two hours to process urgent work at hand, do not answer the phone, no meeting undisturbed. This can do more with less.
3) immediately reply to important messages, will be unimportant discarded. If any accumulation of piles of them, but more time-consuming.
4) make a list of tasks, all of the projects and the efficiency of the manual written in the agreement. Manual must be on hand to help with the efficiency of their own according to plan. The behavior of one person a day, about only 5% were non-habitual, while the remaining 95% of the behavior is habitual.
5) learn to efficiently use a spare minute to read something, or the idea of a file, not a trance or dream.
6) reduce the call back time. If you only need to pass a message may wish to send a SMS.
7) on a call may be aware, so that you look forward to receiving the phone call can quickly find all the required material, do not have to look at rummage chaos.
8) to learn the skills of searching the Internet efficiently to save time online searching. You often have to be collected in order to browse the site at any time to find.
9) use the Internet streamline business travel arrangements. Most hotels and flights to online inquiries and reservations.
10) can appoint someone else as long as circumstances permit sharing of work. Hands-on will make them tired, but never finish. May wish to ask my colleagues to help, or assistant to put more efforts.
11) to do a flexible schedule, when you need can be busy in the loaf. For example, in overtime at noon, and then leave the office an hour early to the gym, or work 10 hours a day, and then went to an appointment on Friday to see a doctor.
12) before leaving the office listed in the inventory of the work the next day, so the next morning case, we can go all out.
everything planned
program used to mean everything to plan its success
have named John Goddard of Americans, when he was 15 years old, when he his life out to do a list, called Orderly arranged in this list, he gave himself to be overcome in the 127 target. For example, explore the Nile, climb the Himalayas, reading Shakespeare, writing a book and so on. 44 years later, he superhuman courage and extraordinary perseverance, hard struggle with the fate, the last according to plan, step by step to achieve the 106 goal, to become a highly successful film producer, writer and speaker.
old Chinese saying:
(3) to develop good exercise habits
enhance health awareness
program used to equal its success. If you want a career, you must have a healthy body; want to be healthy, first of all to have health awareness.
a university teacher I know, the body has been very healthy. Earlier, we often play together. Turning to the physical condition of each, he said, occasionally a slight kidney discomfort. We persuaded him to the hospital to check, but he counting on good health and did not mind. Until then feel more pain, the love of talent forced him to check. Diagnosis was of advanced kidney cancer. Despite chemotherapy, surgery and other treatment measures, but was unable to save the life and death only 39 years old. Earlier, His license school housing allocation, professional title unsatisfactory, the mood has been depressed, his illness and the emotions, but if his health conscious, as soon as possible to check, can completely prevent,
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how to implement the health consciousness? The first one is to have the life, health, awareness of the first,
timberland outlet, with that awareness, you will care of your body, your mental, and not arbitrarily ravaging his body. Second, we must be careful to take some relevant knowledge. Third is to make to have a response mechanism on the body: on a regular basis to the hospital for physical examination; the body does not feel the place, should try to go to hospital for an examination; in the conditional case, you can ask a health care practitioner, to make their own health advice.
a planned exercise
the importance of physical exercise has been increasingly accepted by people, but I feel that many people only stay in the importance of awareness stage, and the lack of appropriate action. I think that the exercise should not only working posture can lead to specific diseases destination corresponding to the appropriate disease prevention and treatment, it should also take as a fun exercise, to develop the habit of exercising.
because of work requirements, I often work with clients, and to handle the unexpected result of buzz, which to some extent played the role of physical exercise, while I swim a week, one to two times to ensure sufficient energy to do work, to enjoy life.
physical exercise, the same as to strive for success, Guizaijianchi.
addition to the above two points to pay attention to diet, reasonable diet, and pay attention to develop good health habits, and develop healthy habits are an integral part.
In short,
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(4) learning the good habits
Harry Truman was president in American history known. He did not read the university, had to farm, then run a cloth store, has gone through many failures, and when he finally government posts, has been over Pentecost. But he has a good habit of constantly reading. Many years of reading, so Truman's extremely knowledgeable. He read a roll of a roll of the In addition, he read all of William Shakespeare's plays and sonnets and so on.
Truman's extensive reading and the resultant wealth of knowledge to enable him to lead the United States survive the end of World War II period, and to quickly enter the post-war prosperity of the country. He knows how to read is to become the first leader of the foundation. Study also made him in the face of controversial, difficult issues, can quickly make the right decision. For example, in the 20th century, 50 years he withstood pressure to bring people respected war hero, General Douglas MacArthur dismissed.
his motto was:
former U.S. President Bill Clinton said: In the 19th century and get a small piece of land, is started in the capital; the 21st century, the people most expect to receive gifts, is no longer the land, while the federal government scholarship. Because they know that a mastery of knowledge is the master key to open the door to the future.
Every Successful people are those who have good reading habits. The world's 500 largest enterprises of the CEO at least about 30 each week to read magazines or books information, more than 100 a month to read the magazine, more than a year to read 1000.
the world's 500 largest enterprises of the CEO at least about 30 each week to read magazines or books information, more than 100 a month to read the magazine, more than a year to read 1000. If you read 15 minutes a day, you have probably read in a book within a month. At least one year you will read 12 books, and 10 years later, you will have read 120 books in total! Think about it 15 minutes a day need to take time, you can easily read 120 books, which can help you in all aspects of life become more wealthy. If you spend twice the time, which is half an hour, then will be able to read 25 books a year - 10 years is 250!
I feel like every successful person before the age of 35, at least read a book a month or two magazines.
(5) the good habit of humility
no reason not to humble a person. Compared in terms of human knowledge, Renhe Bo scholars can only be failed.
famous scientist Faraday later years, the state prepared to grant him knighthood, in recognition of his physics, chemistry outstanding contribution, but which he refused. Faraday retirement, is still frequented by a number of laboratories doing chores. One day, a young man to laboratory experiments. He is sweeping the Faraday said: old man? Young man exclaimed:
Modesty is not only a virtue, it is a wisdom of life, is a demeaning themselves by protecting their own counsels.
(6) made a good habit
have any success has a remarkable self-control.
Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang Shu Prime Minister personally led the army of the Northern Expedition of Shu Wei, Sima Yi took the city off the truce, to ignore the attitude of dealing with Zhuge Liang. In his view, Shu Army struck all the way, back-up supply must be inadequate, as long as the delay time, the strength of consumption Shu Army, will be able to seize the opportunity to defeat the enemy.
tactical silence Zhuge Liang Sima Yi knew the stakes, to send troops to the city several times under the Ma Zhen, an attempt to provoke Wei Bing, a decisive battle to lure out of the city Sima Yi, but Sima Yi has been on hold. So by attempting to rally Zhuge Liang, Sima Yi sent a sent a woman to dress, and Xiushuyifeng said: war, if not, you put this woman's clothes.
wait.
rally a few months, Zhuge Liang passed away unfortunately, the military, Shu Army rudderless, quietly retreat, Sima Yi win without fighting.
irrepressible emotions, often wounding and Sima Yi can not hurt if the patient had a moment of anger, out of the city fight, then perhaps history will be rewritten.
modern society, more and more people are faced with the temptation, if people lack self-control, then the temptation will be led by the nose, deviated from the track of success.
(7) humorous habit
It is said that men need humor, like a woman needs is as important as a pretty face.
men need humor, like a woman needs is as important as a pretty face. Abraham Lincoln 16th president of the United States looks ugly, but he never taboo that, on the contrary, he often took his own appearance humor joke. In the presidential campaign, his opponents attacked his duplicity, intrigue and conspire. Lincoln listened to his face, pointing, said: asked sarcastically: look like?
not sent a man without humor, but the good humor of the man must be a good person, and good humor is a woman of rare animals.
(8) the good habit of smiling
smile is generous, quiet performance, but also exchanges of passes.
the world famous Hilton Hotel, the founder of the Hilton beginning a business, after years of exploration, finally found a simple, easy, do not spend the capital of the business secret - a smile. Since then, he asked all staff: the hotel itself, no matter what difficulties encountered, the Hilton hotel waiter smiles the sun will always belong to the customer. This bunch of
developed countries in Europe and America, people have to nod and smile to meet, so that people feel very warm to each other. In China, if you are in the street Miss Xiang Yige smile, then you may be said to be Learning from the West, let us extend each other smile.
ancient times, dedicated to all successful people one of the most important quality.
(9) work, and enjoy the good habit
dedicated people who want to succeed is to treat the basic requirements, a dedicated hard for people not engaged in his work make a difference.
American Standard Oil
Achilles Butler has called the small staff, began and no cause for special attention. His professionalism particularly strong, always pay attention to maintain and promote corporate reputation. The total travel time in a hotel do not forget to write in his signature on the bottom, That words. To this end, my colleagues call him This is the company's chairman and Rockefeller knew, he invited to dinner Achilles Butler, and called on staff to learn from him. Later, Achilles Butler became the second chairman of Standard Oil.
3,35 success before the age of 9 must be to get rid of bad habits
bad habits that successful step.
corresponding with the establishment of good habits is to overcome bad habits. Locked in, not get rid of bad habits, good habits are difficult to set up.
ancient Greek Phrygian king who Ge s a very strange way, the yoke of the chariot played a string knot. He predicted: Who can open the knot, to conquer Asia. Until 334 BC, a person can not open the knot. Time. Alexander led his army's invasion of Asia Minor, he came to GE before the end of the first Shisheng do not consider it his sword to cut it. Later, he turned in one fell swoop occupation of Greece, is 50 times more than the Persian Empire.
mowing a child in the mountains, accidentally bitten feet. Child pain, and hospitals in the distant town. Children did not hesitate to cut off the injured toe with a sickle, and then swallowed his pain and struggling to come to the hospital. Although the lack of a toe, but the pain of the child to keep his short life.
bad habits, Alexander should have the courage to the children should be decisive and brave and completely get rid of bad habits, good habits lead to their success.
Following the 9
a habit of is that you have to get rid of:
1) recurrent late. You go to work or meetings often late? Late is caused by the boss and colleagues, the seeds of resentment, it conveys the message: You are a only consider their own, lack of cooperation of the people.
2) delay. Although you eventually finish, but hold back so that you look incompetent. Why would delay it? If it is because of lack of interest, you should think about your career; if it is because of excessive pursuit of perfection, which no doubt will increase the delay in your work. Social Psychology experts say: Many people are afraid to love delays and error risk, fear of failure so that they can not start.
3) complaining. It is almost common loser label. A person to succeed in the face of setbacks, they should calmly face his problems, analyze the causes of failure, and find a breakthrough to solve the problem.
4) blindly to please others. A truly competent staff should be on the problems within their own work to the higher note and the corresponding solutions,
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5) gossip. Everyone comments may be others also to comment on the others, but if someone talked about the rumors about this discussion is best to stop. There is no wall, not to take the air, you spread rumors today, sooner or later will be the parties know, why Quban shooting ourselves in the foot? Therefore, wise beyond the rumors.
6) of others demand perfection, sarcastic. Everyone at work there may be mistakes. When the work problems, should help to solve, and should not blindly demand perfection. Can not do in their own particular circumstances, so that their subordinates or others to meet these requirements, it is easy to put people off. Over time, such people have no credibility in terms of the company.
7) tether. Things have been finalized, but often do change, it will help your subordinates or employees can not start. You make the commitment, if not honored, will lose credibility in front of everyone. Such people is difficult to take a leading role.
8) pride. This does not appear you an expert one, but will arouse resentment. Because no one will tolerate others despise myself. It difficult handed insolent good friends. Is a network of financial connections, youth who develop this habit, I believe you can hardly succeed.
9) with the flow. People can go with the flow, but not non-assertive. If you habitually go with the flow, then you are likely to form a mindset, not their own minds, or both there, did not dare to express their own opinion, but not strong-minded person will not succeed.
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