A lot of men do a self-sabotage when trying to attract women. For instance, being the nice
beats headphones, gentlemanly guy will make it easier for the woman to reject a man. The truth in all this is that she needs to be the one to convince herself that you are a catch, and you can help her do that by using forbidden psychological triggers.
This is hardly a new technique, but this may be the first time you heard about it. Believe it, many guys who seem to be "natural" women-magnets are quite familiar with this technique. If you are ready to find out how you too can seduce women effortlessly using secret psychological strategies, read on.
How to Utilize Psychology To Seduce the Girl of Your Dreams: Two Effective Techniques
Before I tell you the techniques, we need to clear any misconception you might have about dating in general. The general idea is that a man should please a woman, do all she wants, and be available at the drop of a hat (or a scented handkerchief). Hear this: complying to a woman's wishes will lessen her attraction.
#1 Psychology trigger - She wants what she cannot get. Just look at how fashion fads go, and how women shop. They see a handbag style on a celebrity and find out that only a certain brand manufactures that handbag. More than a few women will work like crazy to put up the money to buy that item. For years after they buy the item, they will be totally in love with it. "This is so rare, it cost me a fortune to get it
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That handbag is no different from all the other handbags in the world, if you really look closely. It can be used to carry stuff and it only has a few pockets. But women don't see it that way. The prize on the item, as well as its scarcity, makes it something that's worth more than all the other bags in a department store. Make yourself more valuable and "scarce" to get her to fall in love with you.
#2 Psychology trigger - Alternate between happy times and bad times. Women want drama. They like their happy, giggly times, but they also like the sad times when it seems like you are never around and she misses you. She wants an emotional ride that will alternate the danger of losing you and the happiness of falling in love with you over and over again. This technique is adapted from the field of hypnosis - which is known to be super effective when it comes to seducing women.
Both ######es in relationships yearn for appreciation. In other words, both long to be showered with praise and compliments every now and again, most especially the females, who happen to be the most self-conscious of the ######es. Whether in the physical appearance or achievement department, some form of reassurance is needed most of the time. Although men crave recognition too, we will focus on the ladies first, starting with the importance of compliments from men to women in relationships.
At times I wonder why the issue of paying genuine compliments to women seems harder and harder to pull off. This should not be the case if the right kind of attention is paid to a woman's likes, her passion, and areas in which she exudes strength and confidence. Then compliments should flow naturally. To all the men reading this, I discovered through a recent feedback from some of my female respondents in an opinion poll I conducted that a large number of them believe that most of the compliments they are showered with on a regular basis by their boyfriends or husbands at home, work, or social functions, seem to lack substance. Although they accept this, they still do not mind the attention, because for most women
christian louboutin, a ######## compliment is by far better than no compliment.