Like everything, a live in relationship has its pros and cons and it is not before you try one that you realize how well or bad it is. But for people who do not want to face a dead end, judging the merits and demerits of it beforehand can be a good choice. As the English proverb states, it is always better to �Look before you Leap’ than to regret later.
Merits of Live Together:
�Live together before marriage is a choice of two people in love. Since it is a strong decision both of them are hailed to be confident people.
�They are together yet individual. The scope ofpromising and adjusting is considerably low.
�They are not answerable to each other.
�Both take responsibility for their own actions.
�If anything goes wrong, they do notplain to each other or involve in legal hassles. A couple living together ends it mutually.
�They learn to face the hardships of life together, it tends to strengthen their relationship and bring them closer or drift them apart.
�Learns to take up more responsibilities related to daily life and household.
�Couples get to spend more time together, understand each other better, and recognize each other’s flaws since they are together 24x7.
�Gives them a scope to t
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�Try to make each other better, adjust and accept if they really want to pull it through.
�If residing in the same city away from home, sharing an apartment can be cost effective.
�Since it is not a bonding, they are free to move away from each other if things do not work out. This saves the hassles of a legal procedure for divorce in case they are married.
�Its flexible living for both who does not want too much dependence either emotio
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Demerits of Live Together:
�There is no stability. Since there is no legal binding, both of them are free to move out whenever they wish.
�Since it is a break up, an end to a long relationship, one or the other might get hurt.
�If marriage does not take place at the end of a living relationship, it might leave a deep scar in the mind of the individual.
�If children are born out of such a live in relationship and there is a break up, then they are the worst sufferers.
�Since they are living together, they tend to take each other for granted. This leads to quarrels and misunderstandings.
�Boredom gradually creeps into the relationship which seemed a challenge in the beginning and the charm of love soon fades away.
�Statistics reveal that a marriage after a live in relationship is more prone to divorce as the chances of either partner losing intere
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