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Discouragement is Just a Trick Here’s a quote I really like about not letting yourself get discouraged. "Discouragement is a negative emotion with more than one trick up its dark sleeve. It tricks you into mentally or emotionally dwelling in the very place you want to leave. Drop all such sorrow permanently by daring to see through this deception of the unconscious mind. You have a destination far beyond where you find yourself standing today" - Guy Finley Keep this in mind as you continue to take steps towards your goals. You do have a destination far beyond where you are today. 6. Keep Reading Inspirational Articles and Maybe Be a part of a Forum If you keep reading inspirational articles and books, it will motivate you to stay positive. You will see that everyone goes through rough patches but that they do make it through. It will be worth it in the end. Also, there are some good forums you can be a part of where even just reading the other posts can motivate you to stay positive. 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