What makes this relationship so interesting and at the same time nerve-wracking? Mothers fear the changes that lie ahead (not playing a major role) and daughters are pushing the envelope to spread their wings (and fly away). One thing is for certain – the mother-daughter relationship is the most intimate contentious experience two people can have.
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Thank you Mom!
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Wish it was better? If that’s the case then do it. Why would you settle for less than what you want? You have the power to influence any relationship – why not one of the most important one – with your mother?
• 88 percent of adults say their mother has had a positive influence on them.
• 92 percent say their current relationship with their mother is positive.
• 88 percent of all mothers say their family appreciates them enough.
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There were many critical moments in our relationship. There are great memories and cherished conversations. Even though I miss each and every one of them – they are forever with me.
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Whether I laughed or cried the intention was always the same. She wanted me to connect to the message I needed to learn.
Most mothers continue to mother because that’s what they (we) do. And we as daughters still seek our mom’s approval even late in life. There comes an eye-opening time when the daughter suddenly realizes that her mother is not only her mother. When did that happen for you? I was in third grade when my mom told me about the ‘birds and the bees.’ I was shocked,
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Even though we cut the umbilical cord there still is a strong connection. So strong that 80% of women at midlife say they have a good relationship with their mother – but wish it was better.
That reaction was nothing compared to my mother’s pain when my father died. The roles suddenly flipped. I was taking care of her. That was the beginning of seeing my mother as another woman who could feel deeply about the very things I thought she had no grasp of. I saw her as a symbol,
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Does this sound familiar? And then there’s that tiny twinge of guilt.
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