in full swing or bland
passion or fatigued
then, many people feel that the feelings between the couple after the wedding, as sweet as marriage, why?
first character changes. Are lovers to each other before marriage, marriage will bring many changes in the role of specific practical problems. Love of family life during the good future to imagine, now replaced by insipid trivial, may have disappointed psychology. Was expected that the higher the greater the disappointment now.
second love halo effect. Marriage morning till evening, Erbinsimo, the two sides gradually retreat advantages and disadvantages have been revealed. Some people even regret
third is attractive change. Fall in love appearance, temperament, demeanor are appealing. ** During the wedding has become an attraction. Have children, some as part of the husband the wife will love empathy to children. They will worry about towing her children to her husband to vent. Some husbands think that if the wife can get more material and compensation, that is, love of family. That is no longer newlyweds, no further feelings of mutual exchange and return. In this way, some small contradictions encountered when an argument, even a marriage crisis.
Therefore, in order to make sweet married life, you have to correctly understand the meaning of love. Meaning of love is not only gentle and warm, but how to make each other happy, happy. Marriage is the hearts of the impact and interaction of love will certainly be with life after different time of love. Love is the passion of about 18-30 months, so it appeared during the two feelings Rujiaosiqi in love, got married to slow light down the situation, Marriage can not rely on passion to maintain, too, after completion of this passion, we must learn to adapt to each other, to adapt to married life. Between husband and wife to continue to exchange feelings, coping update, the only way to secure the marriage, husband and wife can only bald by the old, loving as ever.
In short, marriage is a pas de deux, and further, step back, are years of life experiences in martial arts. If you continue to move forward, the result is nothing more than step on his feet, messy your dance. Learn to back, or even rotated or placed in his arms an elegant poes, once you can let go solo ... ... if you stared into his eyes, put his side into just the dance floor, He may want to change partners, oh. It is best to train well in dancing, and then on the stage!
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