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3197508 2010 年 10 月 13 日 13:17 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
I have two friends, children are girls, the same school. A Chinese friend very conservative, very strict with her daughter, want their children to first-class universities on the future, love such a thing is absolutely not allowed in the school took place. But the girls in the class action the heart of a boy, afraid to let her mother know that this child has never lied and the parents start to this lie, tried everything the boy carrying a mother and a date. Later, the boy to break, the girl secretly sad, secret tears, weight and performance with plummeting. Mom has not found the child unhappy,
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another foreigner friends are liberal, and her daughter, good grades, from primary school to start on the genius class. The girls went to junior high school after her mother told her: mother does not object to your love, but you must let her mother know. If you want to go to the cinema and what his mother also can give you as a driver. To the third, the girl came back and Mama, she liked the same band as a boy. Mom is keeping promises, not against, but her pledge: and boys together to talk about the heart, can play with, but not ######, because she can not afford the resulting consequences. Also stressed that she can not be affected because the love of learning and get down to business, or mother to restrict it. Daughters agreed.
because her mother accepted the attitude, the girl often would take her and the thing between the boy and mother discussed her mother to seek advice. A year later, she felt the boy who in some places they can not bear to break off the relationship. Later, two people have been, or friends. Love and love in the end of this period, the girl's achievements and not be affected, three days of graduation, took first place in the school, won President Award, and on behalf of graduates in the graduation speech.
children puppy love, parents should hold the attitude of these two instances, we may get some inspiration.
Some parents like the above, the first mother, the attitude to take banned, mother against daughter love these reasons, a study will be affected, and the other is the child mature, high school love is simply a bloody fool.
mother and I talked to a lot of the problem the United States, in their view,
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because if love will affect learning, impact test in junior high school talk, talk of the university entrance exam in high school, then studied at the university will not affect it? So often children are not not graduate, there are murder suicide? Moreover, the University will also affect the test about graduate students, to work, love, will affect the work of promotion. If sooner or later are affected, then the greatest love in the emotional ups and downs the best middle school or high school in first grade, kids this age recover ability, relatively less, the children also experienced this age should experience things, taste the boys and girls taste of pure love.
life is not only reading the university entrance exam,
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Moreover even if the parents do not agree,
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love child to college before the biggest benefit is that parents can protect in the next, the child was injured made a mistake, parents can give help. As the second story of the girl, a mother in the rear hold the line, state of mind is good, loss to chaos, can attack and defend. When the kids went to college away from home, experiencing emotional problems, beyond the reach of their parents, want to help can offer the.
Also, the smaller the age of first love,
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the other hand, find the object but also the need for capacity and skills, do not use these things on paper, requires constant practice. Puppy love is to let the children training, not for marriage. Children in emotional, time-bound practice, the earlier start, the more opportunity the more likely, the later start, the less chance the more difficult.
years in the happiness index, especially for girls, the other half find their own is more important than success, the ability to find the object is more important than learning ability. Girls puppy love more training, improving communication skills, much more important than the elite. A girl can be trained to want the best man have the means to catch, could easily get rid of unwanted, so Mansions girl in marriage and career will not be a problem.
then boy then? Listen next time decomposition