Jack Welch autobiography
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It was a disastrous season's final hockey game. I was then in sailor's high school last year. We are against Denver team, Revere team and team, won the hard-toe first three games, but later in the game,
herve leger, we lost all six games, including five games are a goal difference. So in the last game, namely with main rival in Lynn stadium in Beverly hills high school, we all extremely fights for victory. As a sailor's witch team vice captain, I scored two goals, we immediately feel luck is quite good. It really is a very good game, both parties dozen 2-2 after went into extra time. But soon, each other into a ball, this time we lost. This is the seventh consecutive defeats. I'm depressed extremely, angrily will clubs fell to field, then across the head also don't answer the ground rushed into the lounge. The whole team is already there, we are changing skates and shirt. Just then, suddenly the door opened and I that Irish origin striding into the mother. The whole room immediately quiet. Each pair of eyes staring at the girl of the dress middle-aged woman, and looked at her crossed the room, room had several players are changing clothes. Mother went straight came up to me and seized me by the collar. "You are a loser!" She shouted at I yelled. "If you don't know what is defeat, you will never know how to achieve success. If you really don't know, you had better not to participate in the competition!" I was just in my shame, friends, but before the remarks above this I will no longer can't forget, because I know, is mother's enthusiasm and vigor, disappointment and her love made her into lounge. Her, Grace Welch (Grace Welch), in all my life is the greatest influence on me. She not only has taught me the value of the competition, but also taught me the joy of the victory and to accept failure in advancing the necessary. If I have any leader demeanor, can help you to develop your strengths, I think this should be attributed to the mother. Patience and aggressive, enthusiastic and generosity is mother's characteristics. She is very good at analyzing people's personality. To meet each person, she always been comments. She said she could "in a mile away to sniff out cheats smells". She told friends very passionate generous. If a relative or neighbors came to play in the home, praised the cupboard glass cup style good, then mother will not hesitate to take out the glass for him. But on the other hand, if you have sinned against her, then you must be more careful. She'll hate any failed to live up to her trust. I inherited from the mother's personality. In addition, many of my management concept can find them from my mother prototype, such as the following principles: through competition for success and face reality, use inspire others to pin down, the way to determine the harsh goal, strictly tracking progress to ensure the successful completion of the game. She upon me cultivate insight never disappeared. Mother always insist on to face the reality. She maxim is: "don't deceive yourself. The fact that it is so." She always warned me, "if you don't work, you will achieve nothing, absolutely nothing. No other shortcut in study. Don't deceive yourself!" These are the rings in my mind every day's blunt and firm advice. Whenever I deceive oneself, thought a deal or a business potential serious problem may miraculously turn, the mother's words can always correct me.Start from me, she would tell admission the necessity of my good. She knew how to me is tough, also know how to hug me, kiss me. She let me reassure yourself that you are needed and loved. If I take home A report card has four A and A B, my mother would ask why I got A B. But she always end to congratulate my will to end the topic got an A, then give me A warm embrace. Mother always bothered to check whether I am doing homework, like I'm now always check the daily work the same. I still remember the upstairs bedroom when homework, always hear the voice of mother came from the sitting room "assignment yet? If did not finish, best can't come down!" But only at the kitchen table and mother play gin rummy gold card (lamy games, a double card play), I just feel the fun of competition. As a child, I was reading a grade, noon a school is over, I like the race from school as flew home, mother and hope to have the opportunity to play gold CARDS. Lamy Whenever she won I, of course, are usually so,
herve leger dress, she would her CARDS on the table, a buckle shouted: "gold!" It makes me mad up at once. So each time I can't wait to go home, hope to have the opportunity to win her. I think this is me in baseball, when, golf courses and there is quite a competition in business ZhaoDuan right mental. Perhaps the greatest mother gave me a gift is self-confidence. This is also I tried in and I and upon every executive search and build things. Self-confidence gives you courage and fully release your energy. It can let you take greater risks than you think and get more brilliant success. Help others to establish self-confidence is the indispensable part of leading work. It comes from the for this man to provide opportunity and challenge, let them do never thought oneself can do, namely each get a success in their way after all, as far as possible through reward them. My mother never management anyone, but she knows how to build a person's self-esteem. I've got the stuttering disease, and seems to eradicate it. Sometimes my stuttering can draw many jokes, if not embarrass me word. In universities, the Friday, catholics are forbidden to eat meat, so I often point a baked bread with tuna. Inevitably, waitress quasi will give me the double rather than a sandwich, because she listen to what I say is "two tuna sandwiches tuna sandwiches" (tu - sounded like tuna sandwiches). To - My mother is always? My stuttering, find some perfect reason. She would say to me: "it is because you are so smart. No one tongue can follow you NaoDaiGua is so clever." In fact,
herve leger dresses, over the years, I never to own the stuttering had no worries. I fully believe that mother said to me: my brain than my mouth turn faster.