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a person no matter how intelligent, more capable, how good background conditions, and if people do not know how to do it, do something, then He is certainly the ultimate outcome of failure. Doing things is an art, it is a science. The reason why many people are commonplace life, it is because he lived a lifetime do not understand how someone who is.
everyone living in the real world, all eager to succeed, and many people with lofty ideals to dream, to pay a lot, but get a little, and this can not but arouse people's food for thought: you can not say they are not hard, not hard, you can end up nothing why is the outcome of it? It is worth every one of us to seriously consider.
the surface, it seems very simple way of doing things, who will not? Is not the case, for example, when you are a teacher, your wish is a good teacher subjective, but in fact they are not students; you to do business, your subjective desire to make big money can be chosen to lose this. Despite these surface phenomena, to discover the crux of the problem, you will find a way of doing things is really difficult to master science.
so to speak, is a way of doing things in real life involves learning all aspects of a single study from any of the aspects, can not see the whole picture. To master this knowledge, grasp its essence, it must be refined on the real-life summary and draws some law of universal significance, it can be rules to follow it, rather than fan then no threads.
read a tactic, good enough for your life!
First, social interaction tactics
teach you to make contributions to the
(a) of the \arrogant, will only lose the basic attitude of life, end up wretched, condemned the infamy end.
1, not arrogant
2, proud not to carried away
3, have the ability not boast
4, ask not choose who
(b) \life skills, make friends to be friends, on the snobbish Fenhua, it seems not too demanding, when the \More bearish, some look on, life will suddenly see the light, gusto the.
as \
1, civil use
2, Dankan life, to treat life
3, indifferent Ming, Mo for the fame and fortune block our sight
4, reduction of heart desire to satisfy mind
( c) The \success will be lost, more lost people over the Jiaoshe quality.
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1, save the living from the start
2, \(d) \Break on their own path to success, a better future comes from self-reliance, do not bow to any authority, with efforts to find a part of your self-esteem.
man named Li Shi, their closed!
1, self-reliance, and success about
2, alone product life attitudes
3, used to challenge the authority of the self-
4, self-confidence in your truck wind
(V ) \Polite person would be a man, it was fate, many friends. Polite person would do things, focus on image, cultivated, not enemies, success in every way on the road.
1, courtesy
2, courtesy, politeness
3, pay attention to etiquette dress, giving a good impression
(f) \> be a person of integrity and be a good person healthy personality, the subject of reverence. To be a selfish person and do things Qi Xin, Yin disease prevention capacity, and success missed.
1, have behaved, do not impose on others
2, jealousy is the Founder of the people of the taboo
3, not to deceive your heart, is in itself a pleasure
Second, the word Image
teach you tactics and elegant character
(g) \
to set your life a voluntary, goal trees, tree idol, down to earth, sense of need to develop a successful, first determined, and then with a date.
1, degree of virtue within their means, to mark the conduct
2, be determined, interested, there is hope
3, successful culture awareness: determined to King
4, establish the idol, to change their
( h) \Shape their own image,
belstaff uk, the modern concept of time can not be separated. Reasonable arrangements for their own time, effective use of their time, punctuality, unfortunately, do not delay.
Remember: Time is money.
1, a second value of the million gold
2, do not ignore the spare time
3, stealing other people time, equal to murder
4, according to the importance of work, more efficient use of time earth person, real work. Any one of his hands in his pockets all who could not climb the ladder of success. Give the impression that a real image, to add a touch of his success lay a solid foundation of reality, to themselves.
1, dedicated, successful man of action protection
2, to make each work
3, his hands in his pockets who could not climb the ladder of success
(XI ) \
you live in an era of knowledge explosion, if you are a genius, you do not become the unfortunate focus; If you extraordinary qualifications, please do not pessimistic, as long as you are determined to do good thing, you can be successful. Young people do not give the impression of a ramshackle image.
1, put all your eggs into one basket
2, versatile, nurturing trained \; Shen \Human Jungle, workplace cause a lot of interest, a lot of temptations. Aging and are not afraid of much, everything should be more than think twice, afraid of ten thousand, afraid of the event. Once the stretch the wrong hands, the wrong, wrong, in reputation, in business, in the image Jie You do not save the crisis.
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1, do not the wrong
2, then you want a good \Fate
(xiii) \If things are forced, and should be bold enough to say \; scalp hard \
1, refused to be an art
2, the me, do not polite
3, bristle the power
4, thick-skinned man, hard work scalp
(xiv) \; Little \Yuzuo big, big money, we must first do small things, make a little money, lend a willing small profit. From subtle to start with, the first sweep of a house, then sweep the world!
1, a house does not scan, how can you sweep the world
2, little things do first, make a little money
3, a nail change a person's life
(o) \tactic
little sparrow, Feifei jumping,
belstaff coat, racing against time, constantly looking for food. Life is also the case, the face of fierce competition, only to forge ahead, be a good pioneer, the next goal when the goal, to take risks, dare to battles and hoping things, after all, are slim.
1, does not meet the existing achievements
2, determined to pursue, not submissive
3, and your spirit can not throw, the success is sooner or later
(xvi) \br> self-improvement, courage and knowledge necessary to go beyond the self. What is beyond? Beyond is to eat crabs, is innovation. Innovation also means adventure, danger and seek so-called rich. Like people think, and do not do to others, first in the world, is thinking of conversion.
1, first in the world
2, breaking the rules of the creative
3, abandoned as I can get miracles
4, reverse the offensive and defensive way of thinking
(Seventeen) \; through \ʶʱ����Ϊ����, general engine change by the hero. Not a path to success, why hang in a tree it? Seize the key to success, the East West light does not shine, whether it is black or white, it is important is whether it can catch \
1, cleverly varying strain
2, All roads lead to Rome
3, success is communication, there is only won through
(eighth), \to commend to someone else, like the food as alms to the hungry beggar. Throughout the ages, I do not know how many people, with the silver tongue, changed their extraordinary destiny. Speaking humor, find a common language ... ... a \
1, psychographic find topics
2, flattery is the best \Tim pose coloring
four, interpersonal tactics
teach you to win friends
(xix) \To forgive others is the best way to treat yourself to your enemies and angry, burn your own. Doing things, not too narrow minded. Welcome to Wikipedia,
belstaff online, by a generous heart!
1, forgive your enemies
2, a man of tolerance, tolerance succeed
3, happy to forget, forgive and forget
(xx) \If we do not want isolation, you learn how to get along with others now! Big woods, what birds are, does not require all the people you like, but not what the world's most cattle people.
and for you Well, we should remain level with each other, we can give face.
1, for the benefit of others, for their future careers
2, you give people to stay face, someone else doing good
3, wife of the Road, also, and also intellectual
(xxi) \; letter \Believed to be a force of personality, friendship goes beyond money, is to understand, is to enjoy, is the overlying water, irreversible. So, true to its word, line must be fruit, can help the busy is to help, but not easy to promise!
1, help is help, not easily promise
2, credible, and principled man
3, do prior life, the first man to win the trust
4, the credibility of the cornerstone of life and death, friendship <br \Interpersonal relationships, mutual benefit and reciprocity. To help others, that is, human credit card for their savings, particularly in people impose on the occasion of trouble helping hand to save distressed hero in hardship. Really helpful, the rewards speak for themselves.
1, to help others make a fortune, his dipping
2, good wind power, by the ladder can be almost impossible
3, seizing the opportunity to pull people a
(xxiii) \tactic
people to face the tree to the skin. Human existence in society, to play various roles, especially in dealings with each other, requires a certain dignity to support, this is human weakness. Knowing this, can understand the \
1, to Conceal for the boss taboo
2,
belstaff leather, in front of the losers talk about your pride
3, respect each other's \; diplomacy \Make friends then friends, not instant success, friendship and investment, should take the long, cold temple worship, Yaki-Yaki cold stove, at ordinary times, even a few words of greeting, is also making friends.
1, more leisure time to burn incense, when anxious people to help
2, friendship investment, should take the long-term
3, the temple worship cold, burning cold stove, make misfortune hero
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(xxv) \\For the final victory, should persistence ambition, the humiliation being faced and persistent pursuit, not stop until one reaches one's goal!
1, profound knowledge, endure loneliness
2, who laughs last, laughs best sweet
3, persistent pursuit, never give up
4, not stop until one reaches one's goal
( xxvi), \Problem-solving by the head, brain produces thought, so think angry, in a surprise place easily solve the problem.
1, the cleverest housewife can without straw
2, from the \
tactic to get rid of the plight of people and things, which inevitably requires people to be obsequious inevitably ask for help, but look to the future success, even as life should be like cockroaches expense, feng shui, after all, times change. Lend a hand with the give way bent, resilient to bend for the extension side to hero!
1, the same as the cockroaches live
2, postures, in front of a road
3, you respect my foot, I respect you ten feet
4, low-level people, \dead people
(xxviii) \\Calm among the plight of the decision is often the best solution, but also a kind of calm and wisdom to wait for change, Luanzhongqusheng!
1, sat in the back seat managers chair
2, heart Ning Zhisheng, intellectual trouble into
3, calm the heart from the Yi
4, tolerant about party is greater odds
( xxix) \Life is short, with every pull bow, crossbow, as \Remember,
belstaff jackets outlet, success is starting from the smiling, life things do not always eighty-nine, no music, create their own fun, learn to easily solve the problem.
1, a successful start from the smile
2,
belstaff jacket, learn to create a happy
3, relaxed and happy to learn to solve problems
4, There is no absolute happiness, and only refused to happy heart
( xxx) \kind of \
1, let a friend be your patron
2, out distressed by fellow
3, relatives of relatives, further and further pro-
4, Dream of Youth, a
six of the Kao Kao , unbeaten in life teach you tactics
brilliant life
(xxxi) \You say I'm confused, in fact, I'm not stupid! More than just changing things, business is difficult, ruining fast, people say that water is clear there are no fish, no police were to Christians. In fact, the self-preservation, of great minds are often Dayu, smart person and more able to live \
1, stupid people smart I,
2, do not think they smarter than others
3, doing things not too seriously
4, who is a hero?
(xxxii) \Forbearance to preserve one, and forbearance Nengcheng Shi, tolerance is a great wisdom, Dayong, an even bigger blessing! Tolerance is a thick, black bear, bear villain, forbearance tyrannical, and forbearance of the world finds it hard to do, do not do mild-mannered fellow, as a matter too hard for ordinary people.
1, tolerance is a quick response Tai Fook
2, do not do Xingqingzhongren
3, undefeated life, ninja invincible
(xxxiii) \Calendar rivers and lakes, sophisticated human person stuck a \Withdrawal is a strategy, retirement is a kind of exchange, but also a means to survive. A good philosopher, said, \\; round \Unpredictable people, always best to hold back, there are at leisure, you can look \!
1, radius of a man, a successful work
2, made her second child, do not do the boss
3, human sophistication that article, life skills Yuantong careful speech
(xxxv) \tactic
\\Have at home, the workplace and so can not escape a \
1, long and short term first, near no risk
2, Guo Ziyi Bingtui maid free scourge
3, mountains and the countryside when farmers Fan Li rich life
(xxxvi) \; tactic
Living life in a drama, you Changba I play, whether you will play, to see you will not be installed. Easy to charge a hero, play the weak difficult. As the saying goes, good deed goes unpunished, not afraid of thieves afraid of thieves misses, when you do not have the strength, please hide your talent surplus!
1, deliberately refused to yield good
2, use \---------------------------------
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