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48252 2008 年 11 月 26 日 20:23 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
good and evil is only an idea, joys and sorrows so too rich and the poor. answer to the name of it, felt very relaxed and experience? could have had everything go well in time? may be in a tennis match, the only pressure line just kill the ball; or business meeting, everything clear in chest. Maybe once you have unexpected hero moves, makes you astonished. All this is so beautiful, but you may also have the opposite experience in the day, things went wrong. You may remember many times daily do to easy, but were a mess. Sometimes being reproached, sometimes called upon no one to turn,
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this in the end is how the matter? You did not change, should be the one to the usual fishes, how could the former while Huan grin, the latter time around on the long face? Why even the best athletes will have handy, the attached multi-day vote of no score, hit not a hit situation?
; difference is that you are in different neurophysiological state. In the progressive state, with confidence, dare to love, strong, happy, excited, emission stream of your ability. In the paralyzed state, paranoia, depression, fear, anxiety, sadness, frustration, make your whole body without stiffness. Is the way each of us in and out between the good and bad state. May have had went into a restaurant, the waitress impatiently said: more likely to be busy the whole day she went to greet the guests, plus a few guests without reward tip. In fact, she is not a bad person, but in a depressed state of mind is nothing more. If you could change her mind, you can change her attitude.
understand the change and move towards excellence in the key is to know inner state, but our behavior due to our mood. When we feel all the best, everything will be done well, but sometimes found to be in a depressed state of mind. I had this experience in the unusual state of mind, said or done after the things that upset or embarrassed, maybe you've been there. So remember, when the prosperous people have wrong the next time when someone is not friendly, you have to put away unhappy, while sympathetic to him. After all, we should put ourselves in the thought. Remember, the attitude of the waitress or someone else should not affect us, the key is how do we control their mood and attitude. Just think, if you can roam freely into the enterprise will be able to state - you excited, full grasp of general vitality, mental acuity - how would you? Tell you, you can do anything.
read this book, you will know how to push their aggressive, capacity full of state and at any time, you able from the depressed state. But do not forget, with a capacity of key is to know how to do it. Here I will show you how to control the mind, with a resolute, consistent and effective approach. We would also talk about the mood of the reason, how they work and why we can control and use of reason.
state of mind can be said that millions in our body the result of nerves, that is, at any time feel. Most of our state of mind is intuitive. For matters associated with doing their own reactions, called state of mind, may be progressive, and promising, it could be stunted by rejection, but few people want deliberately to control it. In the pursuit of their goals in life, there will be two outcomes of success and failure, the difference lies in what his state of mind on.
the desires in life, and the mood is slightly more than half correlated. Column tables, to write up your request. You want love? Good, longing for love is a state of mind is when we get some stimulation from the surrounding, put signal to the brain, resulting in the feeling and state. As for the self-confidence, respect, are also generated from the state of our hearts. Perhaps you want the money, in fact you do not care how much money you want is money can bring love, confidence, freely, and others. So the pursuit of love, the pursuit of happiness, the pursuit of the key masters of their own life, on the whole is how to guide and control their own state of mind.
to guide the mind and make you look forward to the results of the first tips is to know how to use mind . First, let us first look at the way it works is how to produce state of mind. For thousands of years, humans have all kinds of emotional changes are the result of curiosity, tried fasting, drugs, ritual, music, ######, food, hypnosis, chanting and other experiments and found that each has its effect, also have their own restrictions. However, I have to teach you a simpler, more effective way, some of which make you learn faster and more accurate.
If all behavior is the result of mind from the bottom, then when we are in two different aggressive and depressed mood, it will surely different information transfer and behavior expressed. Then ask, what is causing changes in our state of mind? There are two main components, the first is the inner storage memory, and the second is the status of our physiological state and activity. Occur every day in different situations around you, you are what the point of view? How is that? You how to say to myself? How to say? Will have a different state of mind, make a different behavior. For example: The other half of the evening when you come home, how do you treat him? Then you look at the behavior of almost all of your state of mind may be, and your mind is how they decided to look inside his Chigui reasons. If he had not come before, you have been thinking that the other had a car accident, bloody body, dead or lying in the hospital scene when the door suddenly you hear footsteps, may be tears of joy, perhaps relief,
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next question, What makes person A caring state of mind can look at these things, but person B can not, and have actually distrust and anger of the mind? perhaps their parents or others had the same experience, and its response to an impact on us. For example, when you were a child, as long as a Chigui father, my mother is bound to worry, the result of concerns about the way you look at many things. If your mother told you, she does not trust you how the father, then you have probably learned that mode. Therefore, our confidence, attitudes, beliefs and past experience, will affect our view of others, to make the relative behavior.
There is also a more important and powerful factor affecting our understanding and perception of the environment, that is our status and physiological state approaches. This includes muscle traction, eating habits, breathing patterns, physical activity, and biochemical effects of various body, which our mind has great influence. Storage memory and the physiological state of the heart operation of the two interlocking, interactive, that is a party subject to external influence, the other will automatically be affected. Therefore, to change the mood, they need also change storage memory and the physiological state of mind. For example, if your partner, or children coming home the other half before you in a comfortable state of physical, then they come back late, you will think that they are delayed by traffic; but if you for some reason, the physiological cause muscle tension, extreme fatigue, or feel pain, low blood sugar, you will tend to use the information to tell their own negative thoughts. I wonder if you can agree that when you spent physically and mentally refreshed, or when the environment will have different feelings? Good or bad is not the body will naturally affect your view of things and practices? Do not mind that a hard or upset, your muscles tense to follow? Thus, memory storage and physiological state of mind is the interaction constant, resulting in changes in your mood, make a variety of different behaviors. Therefore, to be able to control and guide our behavior, he will have to control and guide his state of mind; to control our state of mind, he will have to control and guide your heart deliberately storage memory and the physiological state. To imagine that you are at any time 'to one hundred percent control of his state of mind now! Life experience to be able to guide us before, you seem to know how to experience. Human beings are mammals, the outside world to accept and transmit information through a special receiver and sensor organs. Ordinary people have five senses: taste, smell, sight, hearing and touch, most of the decisions will affect our behavior, mainly through visual, auditory and tactile three kinds of organs.
Therefore, the storage memory of your heart, that you experience things, not the thing itself, but we can present the individual heart. A person's consciousness is not possible to accept all of the signal transmission to him, if you feel the pulse of even the left fingers to the eyes of thousands of such signals should jump to receive, you are likely to go crazy. Therefore, our brains have filtered to retain time information necessary or useful in the future, and deliberately ignored the rest of the data.
filtering process that explains why humans have so many stored memories. Therefore, a traffic accident on the same two people have completely different argument, stressed that he saw a possible, but B has stressed that he had heard each other from different angles. They may also play from the start, using a different physical sense organs to the storage memory this accident. For example, the visual acuity of 2.0 A, and B is visually impaired, the final result will be very different views of both sides. Understanding this difference and inner storage memory will enter into a new filter to the memory, so that they have to experience the future.
inside the NLP has a important concept, that is, In territory structure. content. This is probably why Einstein would have said: appearance of things, through their inner memory storage, then we figured why not inspire themselves and others way, would not the method than the self-handicapping better? If you want to do this successfully, it can never depend on Paradox to form a progressive state of mind of the memory management. Many times, you should bother to pay attention to certain things, do not only see the negative side of light, resulting in frustration, frustrated or unhappy state of mind, and to turn its full attention to the positive side. No matter how harsh the environment, with the aggressive state of mind to face.
was successful because he can always maintain the aggressive state of mind. This is the difference between success and failure? Let us recall Mitchell. What happens to him is not important, it is important that he hold to this attitude of the incident. Ignoring the serious burns and the ensuing paralysis, and let him find a way to live and enterprising mind. Life is good or bad, are not destiny, but by your faith to decide. We can look at things with a positive frame of mind, you can also use the negative state of mind. Take a moment to think about, if you have been all-powerful state of mind at what happens when?
The intention of this is too far. If I tell you to put down the book, through a hot fire, I guess you will not be told what to do. Because you do not have the confidence too far and did not have to fire a certain feel and mood. So when I want you to fire, you're not too far into the state of mind can help you.
fire ceremony is to teach people how to put aside the fear and constraints, can inspire them to practice in a new effective way of bringing to change people's mood and behavior. In fact, not too far before the people that they can not, in the past a fire, is still the same one person, but can and can not do, learn how to change this physiological state and inner storage memories. Therefore, the original fire just bring people fear the process of conversion that can do it. Since then,
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to help people in the heart if the fire I can fire the formation of a new storage memory, then previously thought impossible, just inside the limit , and many other impossible, is not very likely? so we know that mind power is one thing, but put into practice is another matter, and this is the purpose of fire. Since fire and the possibility of providing a confidence-building mode, so that people can form a new inner feelings and state of mind, and then live better than before, do more. Fire is also a clear state of mind to people that behavior is the result of a change once their storage memory means, you can confidently take effective action. Of course, to achieve this effect, there are many, fire is just unforgettable, the most dramatic and fun way of everything! Now we know, produce the results you expect is the key to the way your memory storage, can get you in the progressive state of mind, and inspire you to try various methods to achieve the desired result. If you reached this state of mind, that usually you never expect to, or in a down-hearted at best, lukewarm on the attitude that the. If I said to you: If you think someone fitted with nose rings, into a festival where Uncle and roasted on the fire, you may feel uncomfortable. If this person happens to you, it felt even worse.
hand, if you want and people danced together to celebrate, but also to see picture of joy to the scene of all, you would feel very different. When coupled with safe and happy to see their fire line, the mouth saying: Then you believe the nerve signals the brain receives, it is bound to put you in the mood you are very willing to fire on the.
the same token, if you think things do come will not smooth, it is the case; If you think you will smooth, then the heart will produce the power needed to help us achieve the desired goal. This is Turner, Iacocca, Mitchell and others to place different from ordinary people, because they think they can reach the public wants results. Of course, even the most positive state of mind, will not guarantee success, but when we have the right state of mind, there is most likely to use everything we have.
next question is, if the storage memory and the physiological state of the heart work together in order to produce relative to the behavior of the state of mind, then when we are When a state of mind, what factors govern the behavior of our different? Perhaps a person will love you, hold you, while another is just to tell you he loves you. The answer is that when we have a state of mind, our brain will select the possible behavior. And select the number of ways to learn depends on our model around. For example, when some people when angry, there must be some special response mode. For example, parents learn the same way a slap in the past, or with reference to parents to discuss and reach a compromise approach. The behavior of parents to be stored in memory, used in the future.
We all have different views and models for the formation of the surrounding environment, self-storage memories. From people you know, books, TV movies, we have established on the surface of the world and includes the views. Mitchell's story, something in his life, that is, when in his childhood memories of an individual, that person was lame, but live the victory of life. So follow the example of Mitchell, that the surrounding environment is not an obstacle blocking his ultimate success.
in imitation of others, we need to find out what factors affect some people around the storage memory, are willing to practice what you preach . We also need to find out how they come to their own situation memory storage. Within their hearts, is how to see? How to say it? How feel? Let me reiterate again, if in our hearts and recycling the same information with others, similar results can be recycled, which is to imitate nature.
If you do not adhere to the desired results, then some external factors that will affect you, that you have discouraged state of mind and behavior . Like the streams of life, is constantly flowing, if you do not take the initiative, there are plans to stabilize their whereabouts palm, it will drift. If you are not psychological and physical soil, sprinkle the desired seed, then the weeds will be rampant. If we do not harden their hearts and mind, the environment will lead to a state of mind that we do not Yuxian, the result could be a disaster. Therefore, we have to guard every door of the mind, that he has not incompatible with that located in the normal state of mind.
Do not forget, we need to clear the heart of the fields every day weeds. Always embrace optimism, if you just look at the dark side in his life, emphasizing the possible difficulties, you will be breeding place put his mind in the above-mentioned phenomena. For example, you are a jealous person? No, you're not, perhaps you have been jealous in the past state of mind and behavior, however, is not one of you and jealous. Because you have to have this state of mind and behavior, so that the days of envy in the future and traction will hijack your actions. But do not forget, the behavior is a reflection of mood, memory and mood is stored inside the result of physiological state,
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Yes, in the past you have been jealous, but that only means that you will have that frame of mind is the way to storage memory. However, now you can reserve memory in new ways, with a new state of mind and behavior. Remember, we always have the power to choose the way storage billion. If you think you love cheats you, soon you will find in an angry mood. But you did not hold hard evidence, just guess, so when the person to return home, you are both suspect and angry. May I ask in this frame of mind, how would you treat him? Bacheng not very good. You might grumble or rebuked her, or you feel unhappy, at a later date to seek revenge.
Do not forget, you probably did not even love to do, but you suspect this blind act of mind, extremely may thus pushed her to the arms of someone else. If you are jealous, it is your state of mind produced, you can change this bad picture, to think of it as a loved one due to overtime work and can not come back. So, this new process can be imagined that the other side of your work place will go home for a complete state of mind, and your attitude towards her will make her eager to go home; more anxious to be with you a piece. Also possible that your partner is if you want, then why waste your mind guessing it? Generally, the suspicion is unfounded, but the resulting pain, but it hurt both sides, why bother to zai?
If we can transmit the idea of self-control, for the request, that can produce visible, audible, tangible signal, then we can continue to generate excellent positive The results, even in the slim chance of success or no chance the case can too. The most competent people, often those in even the most desperate environment, ideas are still people who sent successfully. They not only encouraged themselves, but also inspired others, not of success, vow ending. You may have heard 梅尔费希尔
its people. To a deep sea treasure, he spent over 17 years of work, the results remove more than 400 million U.S. dollars worth of gold and silver coins. From the article I know his story. One of the sailors involved in the salvage was asked why he did this for a long time, he said, because Mr. Fisher has the exciting ability. Fisher told myself every day and all the staff, is today it! Call it a day to day, he will say to tomorrow it! He was not just paying lip service to grinding mill, from his tone, his will, he the feeling of his day have shown confidence in the firm. In this way, his enduring work, finally succeeded. His story is certainly an example of success, he knew the consequences, but also know how to do it, learn from his work, such as does not work, then tried his policy, until it succeeds. Another incentive
master, that is, the University of Hawaii coach Tuomai olive ball. He believes that state of mind of achievement. Once the game against the University of Wyoming in the summer too big to be suppressed to suppress, to the midfield, the ratio of number of 22:0, almost a rout.
you can think of to break, summer is the big players entered the locker room how frustrating. Tuomai downcast eyes swept the large group of children to understand unless they change the mood, or the second half can not save the day. The way to see them frustrated, and my heart has no hope of that win, but this attitude is simply not strong and to win this game.
then Tuomai out a poster plastered with newspaper clippings collected over the years his articles each. Posts are from behind the score, finally losing to reverse the bad luck is bound to win the final victory of the story. After reading these reports in the player, Tuomai determined bit by bit to help them rebuild their confidence will be able to reverse the decline in confidence. Thus encouraged by the new fighting, in the second half, the players all summer as the Tigers out of a large pen, grasp the audience, so pregnant with great without a point, whistle to 27:22 win. Storage because they can change the inner memory, I believe that win may be, in this success.
Not long ago, I and the Golf Digest when he was to write a He told me that one of the nation's first class to the golfer for advice, hoping to reduce the score. Although he learned a lot of ball tactics, suffer in mind is not strong. I told him not to waste memory, and asked him if he could have easily shot the experience, he said, of course, I asked him, but often do, he replied good. At this time, I would explain that his mind has clearly unknowingly recorded his approach shot well, as long as the psychological make their return to the situation at that time, you can reproduce the success. I spent a few minutes to tell him how to get into that situation and correctly recall. Did you know? Soon he hit the best results in 15 years, less than the previous 15. No need to bother to memorize his skills to get the desired result, just learn how to access them.
Do not forget, the behavior is a reflection of mind, if you have been successful, then the application and then the same psychological and physical condition to can be further success. Before the Olympics in 1984, I participated in 1,500 m freestyle with a swimmer Mai Keao bray coexistence. He has been training hard, but always feel like can not win the gold medal in his heart seems to have a piece of cloth to block his obstacles. He is a kind of wishful thinking that got the gold medal, so the target on the bronze medal, silver medal at best, that is, do not expect gold. Because another players,
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I spent half an hour, to help Mike recall his peak condition, that is, from a field once the game beat Dicarlo to find ways of exercise, the idea of mind, self-encouragement to say, after winning feeling. We discussed one by one his physical and mental condition at the time, even before the moment of shot game situation.
I found the day before the race, he also listened to radio programs and news Lewis reports. Closer to home, when O'Brien entered the final day. I want to beat him in accordance with that made at the time of each action Dicarlo exercise programs and even have listened to Lewis. The results, he won the gold medal, as much as a full six seconds ahead Dicarlo.
you read It was a war in Cambodia in the life of a child, only twelve-year-old, and in extreme desperation, the picked up a gun, to the surrounding fire. What a stunning picture. You ask, in the end why,
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few people to guide their subconscious mind, the portrait as changeable weather. While depressed, while excited; good luck, such as mountain top, bad luck, the Ruzhui valley. In all walks of life, the achievements of each lies in a different capacity to accumulate, particularly evident in the sports world. Players can no longer guarantee a peak, but there are some people be ready to play. Why Jackson in October to hit a home run reached the peak? Why Bird and West, the human voice in noisy, there is God shoot with great precision shooting skills to become a super striker NBA League? Is the maximum they can pressure, time to play the greatest capacity.
many people want to have a happy, joy, excitement, peace, those who try to flee from frustration, anger, worry, boring state of mind. We can see how they do it? Most people turn on the TV, pick some favorite programs to watch, through the screen and laughter to make you more comfortable. Some people outside the other to a meal, or cigarette smoking, or serving some medicine. A more positive person, perhaps in some sports. These measures are of some use, but not lasting. When the TV show ends, their state of mind remains the same, served over rice or eaten soon after the drugs, the original and reproduction of the bad state of mind. However, this book will show you how to change both physically and mentally, and not require the use of those who have side effects on long-term point of view of foreign objects.
why people abuse? not they like to take the needle arm, but they find a pursuit of no other state of mind. But some very heavy drug addiction children, after the fire, kicked away those bad habits, because the fire so that they use a more elegant way to realize the same state of mind. Have injected heroin addict children six and a half years, said he felt after the injection, far less than to the other side of the fire. This is not to say that to reach that frame of mind, they have often gone too far, often experience that as long as he can be the new state of mind. When done after he had originally thought possible, you can create a set pattern in his heart, so that he can make good things that come to mind.
from this chapter, you should remember that your mind is a mysterious force, is manageable and should not allow any foreign objects to mercy.
This means we have to have a dominant factor in the outside storage of our memories, which filter the storage memory, control of our state of mind change. It is seen as the greatest strength, let's take a look at it the magic ... ...
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