We take a look at their children's pedagogy overseas
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his son to study in United States After graduation, migrated to the States. Back I base a foreign wife Susan. Today, grandson Toby has been 3 annuals age. This summer, my son applied for a visitor's visa. Spent 3 months in the United States, foreign wife Susan ways to educate their children, so my Chinese mother eye-opener.
the story: his own
thing each morning, Toby woke up, Susan to the breakfast table one place, they just keep running around tending to the. Toby climbed up on their own stool, beverage milk, eat toast. Eat, he returned to his room in the closet to find clothes, shoes, and then put on their own. Toby, at last, only 3 years old, are still not clear child's positive and negate, can not discriminate left and right foot shoes. Toby once again the anti-wear pants, and I quickly stepped forward to assist him change, Susan was stopped. She said that whether he felt uncomfortable, will themselves off and re-dressed; if he did not feel anyone embarrassment, it will be with him. Of that day, Toby ran against wearing pants, as Susan did not see the same.
afresh, Toby out and the vicinity children to activity, did not escape out of expiration more than the General Assembly on the home of Susan, said: it? Susan laughed and said: Since then, Toby had never wearing anti-pants.
reminds me of my granddaughter 56 years old will not use chopsticks, elementary educate will not tie his shoe. Now in the middle of her boarding, home every weekend to do a lot of sordid clothes.
Story 2: Do not eat on an vacant
daytime at noon, Toby disgruntled, refused to eat. Susan said he was a few words, Toby, a little angrily shoved the panel to the floor, throwing a plate of food in 1 area. Susan looked at Toby, said seriously: laughed within herself, this mother and son, but also all variety of dead!
afternoon, Susan and I speak, the nightfall I cook Chinese edible. I take the imply, Toby principally fond of Chinese food,
Asics Mexico 66 New Arrival, it have to be midday Susan Toby did not feel good to eat, let him eat more by night.
display cooking that night I did a Toby favorite Sweet and Sour Pork, shrimp fuel boring, but also pasta made with Chinese-style noodles. Toby likes to eat the kind of noodle, full of little human can eat a big plate.
began to eat dinner, Toby joy to mount the stool. Susan has came and took away his plate and knife and fork, said: to cry in tears, weeping, said:
I feel bad, and want to make Toby plea, say a good word, I was surprised to find his son a blink. Remember when I 1st came to the United States, his son told me that in the United States, parents educate their children, others do not intervene, even the elders are no exception. Helpless, I had to remain silent.
repast,
Asics Onitsuka California 78, from start to finish, needy little Toby has been sitting in toy car, looked on helplessly while the three of us adults engulf. I accomplished I do luncheon Susan's real direction. I believe that next time, Toby would like to throw tantrums when their jobs, will think of their abdomens to see my parents and grandmother meal experience. Hungry for the taste of a bad experience, or face Moreover, their favorite food.
before going to nap, with the whereabouts of Susan Toby and I say good night. Toby cautiously asked: After slumber sleep Open your eyes, you can dine it? Toby Tiantiandexiao the.
maximum cases, Toby eat very affirmative, for he did not want to Every time I penetrate Toby eating, breathing hard, face, lips are viscous food, I muse granddaughter. She, like Toby so much, in mandate to coax her to eat, a few adults holding jobs with her after him, she did not buy it, but also on the conditions: later eating a bowl of toys to buy, eat a bowl of buying a toys ... ...
Story III: eye for an eye, but also a male as body
one day, we took Toby to the park. Soon, Toby on the pantry and the two girls playing the game. Plastic pot, a small shovel, small plates, small bowl placed over the ground. Suddenly, Toby picked up the pot mischievous, kick his head hard on a girl a morsel, the girl froze for a moment, burst into tears. Another young girl even smaller, see some cases, have been scared to cry. Toby did not think so probably there will be serious consequences, stood, stunned.
Susan stepped amenable, beginning and cleaning the entire stuff, she silent, pick up the boiler, hard knock to the pate of Toby, Toby did not prepare, suddenly fell to the grass , and cried attach. Susan Toby asked: I believe he'll never do that.
story of four: a problem themselves
Toby's uncle sent him a small blue bike, Toby is like as a baby, not allowed to touch others. Neighbor girl Lucy is a good friend Toby, Toby apologized several times to ride to his car, Toby did not accede.
time, when several children play together, Lucy not disburse attention while Toby and secretly ride car, and sped away. Toby discovered, came to Susan angrily complain. Susan is the mother of several children and chat with a cup of coffee, he smiled and said:
After a little when, Lucy rode the car back. Toby saw Lucy, one of her fall to the ground, grabbed the car. Lucy sitting on the ground and explosion into tears. Susan picked up Lucy, to appease her for a while. Soon, Lucy and other children to play happily together.
Toby will be riding their own automobiles, feel a little bored, saw a few kids play so happy, he wanted to join, but feel a little mortified. He rubs up against Susan around, muttered: When her side, and cornered behind. Back and forth several times, do not know when to start, Toby and Lucy and wreathed in smiles, city center into a team.
story of five: parents disciplining their children is a matter
Susan's parents live in California, listened me coming, they drove to visit us. Home to the visitors,
Discount Asics Shoes, Toby is very excited to run up and down to globe rampant. He secondhand to play with the dirt pail filled with water,
Asics Gel Running Shoes, put a keg in the house wading around. Susan advised her several periods, not to spatter water on the floor, Toby ignored. Finally, Toby, or the pail prostrate, and the water spilled over the ground. Excited mini Toby do not feel someone erroneous, but also arrogant to play barefoot treading water, the jeans entire rainy. I fast ascertain the mop prepared to mop. Susan grabbed the mop from my hands to Toby, he said: Susan apart from everything another, he plucked directly into warehouse apartment,
Asics Running Shoes, closed confinement. Toby heard calling inside the earth-shattering issue, I feel bad bad, want to go prop him out. Toby's grandmother has stopped me, saying: He elected up 2 tall with his mop the ground struggling to tow the water clean. Then he took off his pants, carry in hand, bare ass into the lavatory, splinters from the raiment to clean.
Toby's grandparents, I looked startled wording, significant smile. This entity that made me very well. In numerous Chinese families, when parents punishment their children,
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after, Toby's grandparents and I talk, he said this, Toby's grandfather, said some words, I was very impressed. He said that the child is a parent's child, must esteem the parents of the child's education. Although a small child, but it is a normal diplomat, when he saw the distinctions between kin members, he will be very clever loophole. This is not merely to improve his behavior not benefit, but will guide to increasingly serious problem, and even more other problems. Moreover, the conflict among family members, family air of discord will be more insecurity to the child, the child's psychological development of disadvantageous effects. Therefore, both parents and grandparents in children's education on the issue of disagreement, or husband and wife have differences in philosophy of education, are not in front of children in conflict.
anecdote of six: do not condone the child's appetite
Toby's grandparents lived in the home as a week, ready to return to California a. Two days ahead leaving, Toby's grandfather solemnly asked his daughter: give him a pair of roller skates for a gift to Christmas, buy him a gift doll excavator it! Toby went to the supermarket, he pointed to the plaything excavator, said:
child's love for her mother Susan
although so strict on Toby, Toby love apt go yet then my mom quite, very. He was out playing, it ambition gather some pleasing flowers alternatively leaves he thinks beautiful, solemnly given to her mama; others gave him a gift, he would phone her mother to add him individually; what agreeable is also all quit half to my mother.
think a lot of Chinese children's ignorance and indifference of parents, I must adore my foreign wife. In my outlook, the child's education, the United States has much to her mother Chinese mothers study.
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