When you're in the throes of passion

Passionate or sensitive, firm or gentle,polo ralph lauren, good kissing is an art form which lubricates the wheels of ###### and gets everyone in the mood for more intimacy. Learn how to kiss, and do it well. That doesn't mean sticking your tongue in her mouth and wiggling it around like you're trying to floss her teeth.
When you've achieved your most desired objective, and your penis is inside her,franklin and marshall, you'll want to show a certain consideration for her pleasure. She may want hard and fast thrusting, but it's best to start slow and shallow. While you're making love,polo ralph lauren pas cher, she'll most appreciate your efforts if you're masculine and strong - which is to say, if you act like you know what you're doing, you're considerate and gentle at first, and work up to firm and strong thrusts if she likes them.
23 Not coming at all - or losing your erection when you put the condom on
Let's face it: she's either willing to give your oral ###### or she's not. Trying to persuade her to get her lips around your glans by edging her head towards your groin is a bit crass, to say the least. If she doesn't seem to be heading that way as things hot up, just ask her: "There's something you could do that'd give me so much pleasure....."
Listen up guys: you don't have to be able to take her bra off with one hand, behind her back, while kissing her. In fact, in my experience, it's better if you don't try. She probably puts it on by fastening it first and pulling it over her head anyway. Let her take off the garments you don't understand, and whenever you do lend a helping hand, undress her gently and sensuously rather than pulling at her clothes like you're ripping the paper off a birthday present.
34 Answering honestly when she asks you what your last lover was like
20 Pecking away around her vagina with your penis if you can't find the way in
22 Coming before she's got excited or begun to enjoy ######
16 Undressing yourself inelegantly - which includes taking your socks off after your underwear
40 Not romancing her
The taste of semen is very much an acquired taste; unfortunately it's one that few woman ever acquire. If she doesn't like it, ask her to keep going until the last minute, then tell her when you're going to come so she can move back and finish the job with a well-lubed hand. You'll get just as much pleasure, and she won't have to gag or spit your semen out. By the way, accidentally forgetting to tell her you're going to come is not permitted.
If you're over sixteen, this is a no-no. If you need to know why, you're obviously under sixteen.
41 Slapping her buttocks without checking if she's into a little dominance play
19 Entering her without asking her first
14 Breaking off just as she's getting to the point where she wants you to keep going at all costs
Since oral ###### on a woman is so pleasurable for most men, this seems unlikely. But if it's a question of the smell or taste being a bit much for you, try taking a shower or bath together before ######. If you just want her to fellate you and you simply can't be bothered to reciprocate with cunnilingus, then reading these tips isn't going to help you much anyway.
27 Trying to force her head towards your cock
Above almost everything else (except possibly being deeply in love), ringing the changes when you make love is the thing that will keep your ###### life fresh and passionate. You'll be surprised just how exciting it can be when you try a new position. This is simply because every position puts a different pressure on the penis and vagina, or gives you a new perspective of your partner's body, or perhaps allows you to see entering your partner's body, and so on. Exactly which ###### position feels most pleasurable will depend on the shape and size and shape of your penis and her vagina.
Always remember: a gentleman takes his weight on his arms. Or elbows, or knees, or something.
When you're in the throes of passion, having your beard stubble brushing back and forth across her face isn't so ######y, but at least it'll produce a red rash she can remember you by.
36 Making her do all the work
7 Leaving a hickey on her neck like a teenage badge of honor
######## is not good for men's egos. Real life isn't like that, OK?
13 Going straight for the clitoris during oral ###### or masturbation
25 Not going down on her when she wants oral pleasure
22 Thrusting too hard
17 Expecting her to shave for you
Anal ###### is something that a lot fewer couples have tried than you'd believe from what you read on the internet or see in ########. It's something you might like to try, but you both have to want to do it. She's not likely to respond with warmth if you keep pretending you're poking her anus by accident. And she won't believe you if you tell her you just didn't want to ask for directions, even if that's how you are when you're driving around lost, looking for somewhere.
Pretty much the same point we already made up above, but worth remembering: touch doesn't just have to be in the bedroom, a prelude to ######. In fact, if you touch her a lot in a loving way during the day, she'll be ready to melt into your arms by bedtime.
42 Trying to do ###### by the book (or the film)
And since ###### inevitably involves a certain amount of fluids, keep the tissues handy for afterwards. If you feel like being chivalrous, offer her a warm towel to clean herself, especially if you aren't using condoms.
There you go! And if you've got any more ######ual tips for ######ual success, send them to us at the email address in the box below.
This is the mark of a gauche teenage lover who wants to get to fourth base just so he feels more accomplished as a lover. Take your time, let things evolve naturally, and apply a little sensuous touch on the fabric covering her vulva before you dive under the elastic. The hint of what's to come is often more erotic than diving straight in there.
Pretty similar to number 28, but this time, holding her head and moving it up and down on your penis is the no-no. If you think that's acceptable ######ual etiquette you've been watching too many of the wrong kind of films.
Changing positions is all very well, but asking her to ride you each time you have ###### seems a bit one sided. Vary the positions, have fun, and take equal shares of the work. Don't just settle for one favorite position and flog it to death.
Men like a firmer touch than women,christian louboutin, especially when it comes to our penises. So if you touch her clitoris with as much force as you apply to your penis when you masturbate, she's most likely to howl with pain - and then kick you out of bed. Remember: the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as the penis, in a much smaller area. Treat it with respect. It's the only organ in the human body that has no function other than to provide pleasure.
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An easy mistake to make, especially if you like to have ###### in the man on top position lying close to your partner, and you like to let the world know when you come. Unfortunately she won't let you do it a second time, so bury your face in the pillow or something if you're prone to uncontrollable vocal ejaculations as well as physical ones.
47 Ejaculating on her without asking permission
44 Deafening her by shouting in her ear when you come
When you're masturbating her clitoris, and you have a finger inside her vagina, you may find that she responds well to a little anal play. If you have the position right, you can use your little finger to tickle gently at her anus as your forefinger plays with her G-spot. This may well add to her excitement - especially if she's on the verge of orgasm. If you try this before she's really excited and has stopped caring what's happening to her, you might just turn her off completely, so it might not be a bad idea to check it out with her in advance.
35 Asking her if she'd mind if her girlfriend joined you
9 Not washing your pits and bits before you have ######
Just in case you ever feel inclined to apologize for not matching up to the guys in the wrong kind of movies, just remember: 98% of women would rather have a sensitive lover than one with a big penis. If you're with one of the other two percent, you need to find a new lover.
32 Switching on a hard core ######## film without asking whether that's OK with her
Guys, when a woman asks you if her butt is too big,louboutin pas cher, do you tell her the truth? Enough said. Your current lover is always the most gorgeous, ######y and desirable woman around. Even if she doesn't really believe it, that's what she wants to hear.
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If you happen to be well-endowed, or she has a short vagina, and you thrust too hard, you may end up banging her cervix. This can make her shriek, though sadly not with ######ual pleasure.
4 Not stroking and caressing her
24 Asking her how it was for her
A man who gets up after he's done the business and sets about his daily routine is probably top of most women's ######ual dislikes. For her, this is a special time when a woman feels very close to her partner. She takes much longer to come down from ###### than a man does, she wants to know she's loved and special, and she wants to feel adored by the man to whom she has just given her most precious asset. The very least you can do is to spend a half hour or so cuddling her while you relax after making love, even if you're not going to spend the night with her.
2 Not knowing how to kiss sensitively
No mater how exciting you may find the idea, don't land a heavy slap on her butt without trying a few lighter ones first and seeing how she reacts. If you do, you may get a slap in the face. Or a kick in the balls.
What is it with men and these dark, wet places? Just keep in mind that she decides how far ###### goes, and if she doesn't want to enjoy intercourse then don't press the point. This applies especially to any strategy that involves nudging your penis into position and then pressing forward without her consent, verbal or otherwise! Having said that, you don't always need to ask "May I enter you?" though it can be a romantic and ######y thing to do if you're looking deep into her eyes. Needless to say, that's most likely to happen in the man on top position, which, by the way, remains everyone's most popular position for ######.
28 Trying to force her head further down on her cock when she's giving you oral
15 Undressing her clumsily
6 Biting on her earlobe because you think it's ######y
39 Getting into the same old same old routine every time you have ######
43 Playing with her anus before she's excited enough to appreciate it
37 Trying to slip it in the back door by "accident"
Yes, we all enjoy rear entry. But she may be more self-conscious of her butt, she may feel like a ###### object, and she may not like the rather impersonal nature of this position. If you really want to do it, and you explain to her why you like it so much (i.e. "It's incredibly exciting to see your gorgeous bottom as we make love", rather than "I get so turned on ########ing from behind") she'll probably co-operate from time to time, even if it's only on your birthday and hers.
A woman's second biggest ###### organ is her skin. (The first is her mind.) You can make your touch on any part of her body into a ######y caress, but you have to focus on what you're doing and put some ######ual energy into your fingers while you caress her. That means not thinking about the baseball game while you're giving her a sensuous massage.
Like we said above, most women just find this irritating - and, if you press too hard, bloody uncomfortable too. Your first caresses should be on her labia, the lips of her vulva, then as she gets more aroused, you can work nearer the clitoris itself. But even when she's aroused a soft touch along the sides of her clitoris may be more acceptable for her than any pressure on the head of her clitoris.
If you're one of that rarer breed of men who has trouble coming during intercourse, may we respectfully suggest you see a ######ual therapist? You can then deal with this problem, learn to come more quickly, and avoid giving her a numb vagina and an intimate knowledge of the exact shade of color you painted your bedroom ceiling. If you're one of the many men who lose their erection when the condom comes out of its foil wrapper and onto the head of your penis, it's back to Google for a search on, surprisingly enough, "losing erection when putting on a condom".
Yes, we know it's fun for you. To her it just feels like she's got a teething infant hanging off her breast. Lick and kiss around her whole breast before you go for the nipple, then flick your tongue gently across the nipple and around the areolae. If she likes what you're doing, you'll know by her moans of pleasure.
10 Forgetting she has a sensuous body waiting to be stroked
5 Locking onto her nipples like a suckling child
30 Coming in her mouth without asking her if it's OK
Remember the motto: "Women come first!" As a man, you're probably going to lose interest in ###### once you've ejaculated - at least for a while. In which case, make sure she comes through oral ###### or masturbation before you enter her. That way, she gets her pleasure and so do you. (With the added bonus that it doesn't matter so much if you shoot quite quickly.) Just to enter her, thrust a few times, come, roll over and forget about her is the mark of a boorish lover, and you wouldn't want to be one of those, now would you?
You've got to be sensitive to the fact that a woman is more likely to be irritated than aroused when a man dives for her breasts and vulva after a few minutes' perfunctory kissing. While you might get to feel the goods, you're not going to be invited back.

This is, by all accounts, many women's least desired ######ual moment. If for any reason you can't get in, don't pretend you're in control and keep trying. Simply ask her to guide you in with her hand. That way you'll save a lot of embarrassment, not to mention time.
Women love romance. Men put up with it, or do it to get ######. True or false? Probably true, but the romantic "chase" is deeply rewarding for most men (i.e. seducing and winning a woman makes us feel deeply fulfilled), and romance is an essential part of that process. If you're able to continue being romantic once you're an established couple, then you set yourself head and shoulders above the rest of your fellow men, and you stand that much greater chance of getting regular, passionate ######.
49 Not spending some time with her in your arms after ######
18 Sticking a finger up her vagina before she's ready, willing and able
In general, women do like to be penetrated just as much as men like to penetrate, which, considering how much men like to stick things up there, is just as well. However, she'll only want you to do this when the time is right - i.e. when she's aroused enough to enjoy it. If you're giving her clitoris attention, there'll be a point where she might like to have a finger or two inside her. If so, be gentle, and start with one finger on her G-spot. Make sure she enjoys this before you put another one up there. Two fingers on her G-spot is probably as much as she will want. And be just as firm with your touch as she finds pleasurable. If you don't know what the G-spot is, then do some Google-ing before you get into bed.
12 Dropping the condom on the floor
Threesomes can be exciting, but they usually just cause jealousy and upset when one partner unexpectedly finds they don't want their partner making out with another person. Needless to say, this usually happens to the woman. So be sure, be very sure,franklin marshall, you know what you're doing before you try this one.
If there's one thing that turns women off, it's a lover whose personal hygiene isn't up to scratch. Even though men have a higher smell threshold than women, keeping yourself clean - especially in the more intimate corners of your anatomy (like under your foreskin) - is not just a matter of courtesy, it's a ticket back to the bedroom.
29 Holding her head when she goes down on you
Unfortunately, as many jilted lovers can testify, taking pictures while you enjoy ###### is putting power in the hands of the person who has the pictures. A good compromise is to link your video camera direct to your TV without recording the images. That way you can have the erotic thrill of seeing yourself during ###### without having to worry about seeing yourself having ###### on the internet in a few years' time.
Like we said before, a good lover makes the effort to make sure his partner is satisfied before he is.
48 Not controlling your ejaculation
31 Thinking that a ########o movie has anything to do with real life
11 Trying to get your fingers in her underwear before she's ready
38 Photographing or videoing your lovemaking
33 Apologizing for the size of your penis
This is not the mark of a confident lover, so if you really want some feedback, phrase it thus: "Did you prefer it when I did X or Y?"
26 Failing to give her pleasure if you come quickly
Even if you find it arousing, she's not likely to, for the simple reason that much of the ######## available today is fairly abusive to women. Ask her first, and if you want to share the erotic thrill of watching people have ######, get hold of some romantic ###### movies that will appeal to her emotions as well as her ###### drive.
50 Not cleaning up after ######
3 Being too rough when you touch her erogenous zones
There aren't many men who can last long enough to really satisfy a woman who enjoys vaginal intercourse and G-spot stimulation. If you can't be bothered learning how to be a long lasting lover, then at least have the decency to keep going for a few minutes so she gets some pleasure. This isn't hard, and there are plenty of ways you can learn to extend intercourse and not come so quickly. Do some research on Google for "end premature ejaculation". See also number 26.
21 Expecting her to make love bottom up
1 Going straight for the naughty bits
46 Lying on top of her without supporting your weight on your arms
Yes, once again we know it feels good, but you have to be considerate about it. She's not likely to be a deep throat expert, and there's no reason why she should be, since most of the pleasure of oral ###### comes from the action of her tongue on your glans. Keep your hands away from her head unless it's to gently stroke her hair, and you won't feel the temptation to encourage her to go deeper.
Coming between her breasts or on her vulva or bottom can be incredibly exciting, but it's nice to ask her first. She may see it less a mark of your ejaculatory prowess or manhood than a mess to clear up.
You might like the baby smooth look around her vulva, but she's more likely to see this as a prickly route to itchy stubble. Ask her nicely if you'd like her to go smooth. If she says "no", accept that graciously.
20 Pumping away without regard for her pleasure

Just in case you thought the route to ######ual bliss was straightforward, here's a list of things to avoid. They're all pretty much guaranteed passion killers for a woman - and if your check list contains more than ten of these, you've got some serious work to do on your ######ual etiquette!
Must we say why this isn't the most popular move post ######? Dispose of the condom tidily in a tissue - put it in the bin rather than down the toilet, or it's likely to float there for some time to come as a reminder of your ######ual encounter.
Generally a little consensual dirty talk between adults adds to the excitement. The first time your partner tells you to f*** her hot wet c*** you'll see what I mean. If that hasn't happened yet, and you'd like it to,franklin et marshall, encourage her to talk dirty to you when you're making love, and see what pops out of her mouth. You might be surprised. Remember legend has it that the quiet ones are often the most surprising in bed!
She may not agree with you. In which case it will just be irritating for her, not a prelude to her turning into the ###### goddess you thought you were summoning up.
Women often get so lost in their ######ual arousal that they forget to give feedback. In reality, the fact that she's lying there quietly may actually mean she loves what you're doing; if so, you should feel her pressing her vulva against your mouth or fingers, or shifting like she wants more touch, rather than giving you a sense that she'd rather be out shopping.
Nothing is more comical (or pathetic) to a woman than a man in his socks and pants. Except possibly a ########## man wearing socks. If you don't understand why,ralph lauren pas cher, just accept that it is so.
Don't copy the moves you see in ######## films. They lack a certain something. Consideration for the woman, that would be.
45 Talking dirty without checking if she likes it
8 Not shaving before ######
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