Speedy or otherwise, it works most of the time. So barring the free flow of genuine compliments, there's no telling what might happen. Like the few times I paid my even my own baby sister compliments
Versace Boots, I usually got what I wanted, but after a while it seemed their hypnotic power gradually wore off. I soon realised that anytime I remarked on how beautiful she was, 'Thank you, mister' would be her cheeky response, laced with the killer line, 'But what is it you want this time Mr Shash?' That is even before opening my gob to utter a request- so unfair. I guess at the time I needed to step up my game in the compliments arena.If a man pays a woman he adores - and in whom he has shown interest- a compliment, and does not intend lying awake all night wondering if it had the desired effect, he needs to ensure that she agrees with that compliment deep down in her heart.
Four Accessories You Need:
An Appropriately Sized Handbag: Many women underestimate the power of an appropriately sized handbag. In fact, if you carry around a handbag that is too small, you can look as if you weigh 30 pounds more than you actually do! So, take the time to think about the handbags you choose from now on. When shopping for a handbag, be sure to remember scale is everything. You need to find a bag that's in proportion to your size. Avoid tiny bags or totes, as they will only make you look larger. Be sure your bag of choice has ample straps which fit your arms properly. Don't always go for the black or brown bag, as a handbag is the perfect way to let your wild colors show!
Elastic Belts: Belts are all the rage right now in fashion, giving plus size women a great opportunity to highlight the smallest part of their body (typically the waist area). However, regular belts may be too tight for you to tolerate. So, when you are in need of an accent belt, reach for an elastic type. You can pair them (under your bust area, somewhat high) with a white shirt, sweater
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Plus Sized Leggings: Leggings are considered an accessory because they aren't quite a substitution for pants. Plus sized women often use them as a substitute, which is the WRONG way to wear them! Pair leggings with a long tunic, under a shorter skirt or with a long sweater dress. They can add warmth and style to outfits. Just be sure you don't end up wearing them everyday or you may fall victim to the fashion police!
Large Jewelry: Just as we mentioned with the handbag
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Plus size women often make the mistake of thinking they don't need to think about accessories when trying to flatter their figure. But, the truth is there are a few accessories plus size women should not live without... as long as they use them correctly. In contrast, there are also many accessories plus size women should pass on by!
That, of course, can be achieved by steering clear of surface compliments like, 'You're looking fabulous today!' because if indeed she is the super-confident type, there's not an iota of doubt that she is already aware of it prior to leaving home. Why? Well, it is no secret most women really do love their mirrors, be it the ones that adorn their wardrobes or walls or especially the hand held type, permanently resident in handbags, hence the reason most appearance-conscious women rarely leave their homes without them. For every five diva-like handbags we see in public places, there are certain to be at least three hand held mirrors tucked away somewhere. Don't forget the make-up sets to match, in case of fashion 'emergencies'. So in terms of the art of paying compliments, it would be much more effective for the man either to tell the woman concerned the good thing she hasn't yet noticed about herself, or better still to emphasise in a unique way what she already knows.
When shopping for accessories, the most important rule is to remember scale. It's so important we've mentioned it multiple times already! Be sure whatever you choose to use as an accessory is not tiny, as it will instantly add pounds to your visual appearance.