Your spouse works like a monkey but still gets only peanuts. If your spouse keeps on working overtime night-after-night but does not seem to get paid for it after looking at his/her salary slip then he/she is obviously fooling you. Your spouse is certainly getting paid for all the overtime work but not in a manner that you would want to see or know.
Now suppose I lose my job or the property and share prices collapse or I become separated? What will people think of me then, especially if I've been manipulating the "system" for my own "profit"? On the surface the job is gone, my shares are worthless and people dont think I'm so successful afterall! However even more important to realise is that underneath the surface the very identity which I based my life has been shattered! And it is this collapse in identity which is the greatest challenge for most people. It is this collapse that can cause people to lose heart
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Your spouse conjoins to his/her mobile phone. If you notice that your spouse is now stuck to his/her mobile phone and even lowers his/her voice considerably when handling certain calls then this too would indicate trouble for you. Your spouse could also cut certain calls after looking at the screen of the mobile and then rush off into another corner to hastily call back the same number. This too would indicate that your spouse has embarked on the slippery path of cheating.
If your spouse has decided that variety was the only spice of his/her life, & 'wedding vows be dammed' then he/she is sure to exhibit signs of cheating.
You should be on the alert to notice such signs so as to catch your spouse red-handed and to quickly introduce the sole of your shoe to his/her immoral behind.
Your spouse's car indicates the presence of another person. If your spouse's car emits the smell of an unknown perfume or odors of cigarettes being smoked inside or if you find strands of hair stuck to the passenger-side headrest that do not belong to either of you then be very alert. This would indicate hastily conducted physical sessions in your spouse's car, especially if you also notice earring clasps or stained clothing inside the car.
Your spouse starts stammering. If your confident spouse turns into a nervous verbal wreck and starts stammering especially before going out alone or after coming back from meeting 'old buddies' then you can be sure that your spouse is lying. Your spouse could also blow his/her top when you try to probe further about his/her whereabouts.